Quote Originally Posted by davina_ View Post
So our play-time is limited.

Made me wonder - does she even have the time to find out where she is with this? Sometimes you just have to be off the daily vortex of things to do to be able to switch your mindset to other things - or so I have found myself.

She does admit my fantasies are kinky and she loves kinky but she says she is just not good at it.
Do you know what she means by not being good at it? What, to her, is good at it? If she loves it, that sounds like potential to me! Would it help if you told she is not supposed to be 'good at it' as much as enjoy it? ;-)

I also liked your previous post about seeing three different perspectives and not really being able to understand the mindset of each. I guess it really is a completely individual thing for each and every one of us.
I believe with all my heart that it is, even if some things may overlap. So I also believe that it is a journey for each of us to find our very own way. Good luck :-)