Hello Ksst My husband is getting into more now.He still doesn't like the spanking,whipping part but is willing to add some of that in for me.We also had a few things that were kinda preventing us from doing certain things before and now we are able to get into it more together.How long have you been exploring "BDSM"? I am kinda of new to it and so is my husband.I know the feelings I feel aren't new,I just decided to tell him recently.Does your husband have a hard time with the physical aspect of it too? Well I don't want to bombard you with too many questions at one hun.I am not not sure what is being too explicit on here though so I can't answer on that.I don't think you really can get to explicit on here.Anyways hun Welcome to the site, talk to you soon