Husband/master finds it hard to to "mean" to me

[thir]

He is only into the part where I give him head whenever he wants it,and he calls me names once in awhile,bitch,slut,whore.Other then that he is not that into it.He maybe spanked me 3 times in a few months time.He won't make an account on here.He is not that kind of person that likes to talk about stuff like this with other people.I must of written him like eight letters telling him what I like and how to do it. Thanks for the advise Delish.I just have to give it some time I guess.

I personally do not think that time will do it. As was said, some people do not click that way, and if they do not, it is unlikely that it can change.

I am sorry, but it sounds to me like you want something of him that he simply does not have to give you - more than he already has.