Male submissives

[Ozme52]

It is a very interesting thread, I have learned a lot from the posts, having read each of them. There is an expression: "In my humble opinion." Well, my dears, my opinion wants to be truly humble. I am new, young and unexperienced. Please don't hesitate to correct me, I want to be really docile.

I am neither a male sub nor a Domme. But my submission became reality when I found somebody that was ready to fulfil my secret fantasies. I found another girl whom I was able to have long, intimate talks with, and, first time in my life, I was able to reveal my masochistic fantasies. To my surprise, she expressed, very shyly, her readiness to humiliate and torture me. This talk ended up with my getting topless and her whipping my breasts and back with the strap of her bag. Since that it has been continuing on this line. She doesn't tell me what dresses to wear, but she takes the whip and tells me to strip naked and grab my ankles, and I obey. I can express it so that we are not in D/S relationship, only in S/M, sadist/masochist relationship. She fulfils my fantasies, and I fulfil her fantasies. It was surprising when she first told me to open my mouth and then she spat into my mouth, but I swallowed her spit without hesitation and thanked her. I have a strong experience of being humiliated, without being regulated in my every step.

I ask, humbly: is it wrong if somebody wants his/her fantasies fulfilled?

Please, please, understand me, I ask really humbly, it is not irony at all. I am ready to be corrected. Thank you for your kind attention.

No, of course not. That's what we all desire. But it is, imo, appropriate that the dominant directs how and when the submissive's desires get realized.

Our roles are different, and complementary.

[yama]

But it is, imo, appropriate that the dominant directs how and when the submissive's desires get realized.

Our roles are different, and complementary.

I understand you, Sir, and I fully agree. A submissive must submit.
Even a sadist/masochist or fetish top/bottom relationship means a
sort of domination/submission, only not necessarily in all area of life.
I hope I could make clear that I really submit to my dominant girl,
even if she has surprises for me. And I would obey her if she wanted
to dominate me on other areas. My craving for being humiliated could
make me a real slave. But neither of us is interested in that.

Thank you for your reply. I found it late, because as a silly girl I started
to read the thread at its end. Sorry, Sir. When putting clamps on me,
please remember my misdeed and make them tight.

(Referring to a former conversation on the "Clamps on the clit?" thread.)

[ravnseye]

I've only been a member here for less than a week. I have been masochist since before I knew what one was. For me, it took a great many years to get past the mask that society laid out for me. A few years ago, I accepted, and really started exploring who and what I was/am. Still, I do find it hard to be that in front of others, even in cyber space. In the really real world, I am about as redneck as it gets, more by the people in my life, and where I am and such. Since the first time I pinched my own nip while...er..."relaxing" I have known it wasn't something to talk about, because of what I was taught. Now, I try to get to know people, and read the situation, before I speak. So, for me anyway (I can speak for no other) it isn't a matter of hiding, it's a matter of assessing the place before I speak. I am a sub, and love being so. Give me time to know you, and soon you'll be telling me to shut up, instead of openup

[Slavejamesuk]

i have spent many years reading stories from the library, and only very recently registered for chat. I think many men are more interested in pictures, stories and cyber than in chatting to discuss s&m.

I have been submissive all my life, for many years only to women, and most of whom I had to pay for thier attention.

I have been fortuante to have had a couple of girlfriends dominate me, but both only did it for my pleasure and neither were dommes, but i did live for 8 years with a pro dominatrix and she really enjoyed her work.

I am now bisexual in s&m and this has really opened me to new areas of submission.

With regard to chat and cyber I was very good at impersonating a female sub and had lots of fun and many hours with an erection teasing myself for as long as possible, one handed typing gets better with practice.

Hope everyone enjoys their submission and domination.
Deepest respects
James

[wannabeslave]

i am a male sub who does not have an agenda. i have posted here a couple of times and some other forums, but gotten very little response.

[thir]

i am a male sub who does not have an agenda. i have posted here a couple of times and some other forums, but gotten very little response.

What do you want a response to? Have you got a question or a topic you would like to discuss?

[thir]

With regard to chat and cyber I was very good at impersonating a female sub and had lots of fun and many hours with an erection teasing myself for as long as possible, one handed typing gets better with practice.

Hope everyone enjoys their submission and domination.
Deepest respects
James

Did you do this impersonating because you cannot get answers as a male sub?

[Slavejamesuk]

I impersonated because I had deep fantasy of being a female submissive
i could see myself as a female slave. But it is also true to say I found it easier to get cyber as fem sub. But when I was impersonating Suki
I did not act out my bi male fantasy
hope that explains
best wishes James

[thamlin]

i am a male sub and i am gay and trying to find a a Male Dom is proving hard anybody have any tips