LOL Dixie! It is pretty bad.

There is scientific evidence that the male and female brain are mapped differently for different tasks. Communication just seems to be our thing.

It is incredibly frustrating to go to someones profile anywhere and see nothing. Not even the slightest hint at an interest. I've taken to asking people why they messaged me. What part of *My* profile they found intriguing just to get a basic understanding. On another site I'm very open about gender fluidity as it's important to me in a BDSM sense so I delete *any* message that has female indicators in it as it's clear they didn't read my profile.

As much shit as I do give male subs. The ones I do talk to are awesome people and I wish they would come here and post here. I do wish that there was more communication than "I'm a male sub... yay". I also do think the lack of participation in the community kinda hurts them in quality too. (from time to time and person to person).