Quote Originally Posted by TimberV View Post
I finally had a portion of the conversation with my vanilla partner. Things weren't explained in great detail, but he has made it clear that he is not interested in the lifestyle. I think that the time has come to clear up some of his misconceptions and to also add a bit more detail of what it means to me. Then, I will leave it to him to decide what he wants to do with the information. Tricky ground, but I wouldn't be honest if I didn't say something.

These discoveries don't make the process any easier, but at least I'm able to understand it a little bit better. It's amazing what happens when a person actually quiets the mind.
Yes, but easier than not discussing it with him and letting your need languish within you.