Yes, the "L.A. Man" can do that. And we have discussed it. My partner, on the other hand. . .I don't think he understands what a huge part of my life this is, both Dom and sub. And that's because I haven't given him the opportunity. He knows some about my leather life, but I haven't told him enough. Don't worry, I've already been chewed out by A. about this. She definitely has my number. That's why I love her!!