My wife and I have started exploring this new world. We have done mostly light bondage and spanking. She really loves it, and I want to please her. My problem is I always worry that I might hurt her so I hold back. How do I over come this hang up. We have read a few books on the subject, but most of them seem to be to advance for our taste. We want a more basic information about how to explore this new world. I was also wondering how to go about finding a public dungeon or club so we could meet others with the same taste we have.