At first this was a bit wierd becaus he found out my curosity with bdsm after I kept it from him because I knew he was not into it. He took it in a negative way at first. He thought it over and said it would be hot to try some of these things in a laughing way. but we only joke about it sometimes.

Since we faded back to normal things and we are happy with the normal lifestyle to. Every now and then he jokes by saying "i need to tie you up to spank you for that" and it gets me rallied up.
But I feel its time to TRY something. He would obviously be the dom and me the submissive.

I think us finding out where a bdsm themed event is, anywhere in SC, NC, GA, or mabey FL. we could dress the same 'theme' everyone else dresses as and jump right in. Hopefully it wont be to uncomfortable the first 6 minutes of a semi public setting..I just want to start something that might spice it up bdsm style. We bought a collar for me for me that was part of a halloween outfit, im thinking about putting a leash in one of his christmas gifts this year as a hint.