The virgin BDSM sub

[ksst]

I don't really have any advice other than it's your choice how you want to do it the first time- whether to wait for love or just find a lover for a short fling. I couldn't wait to lose my virginity. I was only 16 and have never regretted losing it. But I was also lucky enough to be in love with him as well (and still am completely besotted many years later). IMO, as long as you have safe sex, there is no reason to wait for "the one" or marriage. It's kind of an outdated idea.

[Leona1993]

I don't really have any advice other than it's your choice how you want to do it the first time- whether to wait for love or just find a lover for a short fling. I couldn't wait to lose my virginity. I was only 16 and have never regretted losing it. But I was also lucky enough to be in love with him as well (and still am completely besotted many years later). IMO, as long as you have safe sex, there is no reason to wait for "the one" or marriage. It's kind of an outdated idea.

Nice words, I couldn't say better. Sex is meant to be a good thing! It is not devil or rude like you see in porn so much times. Sex is something personal and it is only your business! it is your body and your mind, noting else!