Need advice! RE: Moving overseas for your loved one

[pervertedpages]

Thanks Archeon! My Master and I might have to go through the same process in a few years, when he's done with school, if we move back to the States. If it's not too personal, can I ask what visa you are applying for? Is it a fiancee one? That was the only thing we saw when searching through move-to-america options (which we didn't do that thoroughly, honestly, because it gave me hives). It'd be good to know what someone else has done.

And thanks for the advice. We have loads of vanilla stuff, pics, and things like envelopes (he kept the cards, lol "for sentimentality") with postmarks, as well as you know, passports/plane itineraries. I guess the fear comes from the frustration that we might still be denied (especially because we're both very young)... And anyone who has seen us together or could read a fraction of the things we've written to one another would know how much we love eachother, and how real our relationship is. That's why I don't like not being able to show them all of our interactions. He is The One, capital T capital O, and I guess I'm just posting this here because of the stress/rage at the thought that someone else has final say on whether or not it's legit, and want to give myself the best odds...

[bluefarie]

Thanks Archeon! My Master and I might have to go through the same process in a few years, when he's done with school, if we move back to the States. If it's not too personal, can I ask what visa you are applying for? Is it a fiancee one? That was the only thing we saw when searching through move-to-america options (which we didn't do that thoroughly, honestly, because it gave me hives). It'd be good to know what someone else has done.

And thanks for the advice. We have loads of vanilla stuff, pics, and things like envelopes (he kept the cards, lol "for sentimentality") with postmarks, as well as you know, passports/plane itineraries. I guess the fear comes from the frustration that we might still be denied (especially because we're both very young)... And anyone who has seen us together or could read a fraction of the things we've written to one another would know how much we love eachother, and how real our relationship is. That's why I don't like not being able to show them all of our interactions. He is The One, capital T capital O, and I guess I'm just posting this here because of the stress/rage at the thought that someone else has final say on whether or not it's legit, and want to give myself the best odds...

You are not the only one that is frustrated with someone else getting the final say on the legitimacy of your relationship! I feel the same way. I am keeping a positive attitude about it all and just treating it as when W/we get approved instead of "if" because as i see it, there is no real justification for turning U/us down. Also, i have some faith that i would not have fallen in love w/ Master and been through all that W/we have been through if there wasn't some reason for it, ie "W/we are meant to be." I guess maybe that might be the hopeless romantic in me talking, but it keeps me going. You are not alone in this and glad to be of any support if you need it.

Bluefarie, very happily owned by Master Archeon