Well said, thir! *lol*

I myself donīt hold people who do NOT seek to learn through their whole lifetime in particularly high regard. BDSM does not make an exception.

I tend to ask other subs when I have trouble with doing something, and even ask Doms I trust about their point of view on certain issues.

I found the people on this site very helpful and supportive in this regard.

If anyone tries to make you feel bad about wanting to ask/attain more knowledge - they are not worth your time.

Good luck with your search and learning.