Quote Originally Posted by thir View Post
No, it is called shared experience. Or I see it.

Subs do it a lot more, though, perhaps from this idea that a Dom must be born perfect. An idea that both some subs and some Doms seem to have. A great shame, as it can get in the way of growth.

Wise words, thir.

Although I'd like to add that some Doms have put that burden of perfectness unto themselves by being too pre-occupied with being The Almighty, instead of taking care of the needs of their sub. Because, in my humble view, true dominance comes forth out of the dilligence and minute attentiveness the Dom has for his/her sub ...


JJ