shiny new user needs advice

[leo9]

Also, we have spent a lot of time focusing on his sexuality. It got to the point where I was spending more time thinking about what turned him on as opposed to what turned me on. So I'm here trying to reclaim my sexuality.

<G> Watch out - there are people here who'll tell you you're not a real submissive.

[leah06]

<G> Watch out - there are people here who'll tell you you're not a real submissive.

Oh my God, Leo9, someone PM'ed me that JUST THIS MINUTE. I was going to post a little rant about it, but decided to let it go - but, what the hell. . .

RANT!!!

I don't go critiquing anyone's Domliness, I don't see where someone gets off telling me what I am or am not.

Thanks.

[CrimsonRose15]

<G> Watch out - there are people here who'll tell you you're not a real submissive.

If people want to say that, then they can go ahead. The way I see it, there is a wide spectrum of sexuality and dom and sub and just words used for ease and clarity.