faking it

[fellintobed]

I faked once or twice and it always left me feeling miserable. I finally started recognizing when I just wasn't going to cum, and now I freely admit it - "hey, I'm not going to cum, but we can keep having sex if you want to". It's up to my partner to decide how he feels about a solo orgasm. Willingly giving my body for someone to use for his pleasure is slutty and submissive. I've found both reality and enjoyment in a sex life that includes the occasional night of honesty and no orgasms.

[lucy]

Willingly giving my body for someone to use for his pleasure is slutty and submissive.

I thought it's love, but i go with slutty and submissive too.

[fetishdj]

The two can often be easily confused...

[lucy]

Hihihi, yeah. As long as it feels right i couldn't care less what it is or what others call it