Old School what is it to you?

[blythe spirit]

I have a question, J-Go in relation to your last statement. Whilst I think the sub should be kept in the loop, I wonder why you feel YOU should be introducing yourself to another sub's Dom? Isn't it up to the sub to keep her Dom in the "loop" as well and should she not be the one to do the introductions?

It just seems to me that if you should introduce yourself prior to the sub mentioning you to her Dom, this could cause a problem.

As far as "old school" is concerned, I did not respond as I have no idea what "old school" is other than that of the "gay" BDSM movement. So this whole thread is enlightening to me. Thanks

[J-Go]

I have a question, J-Go in relation to your last statement. Whilst I think the sub should be kept in the loop, I wonder why you feel YOU should be introducing yourself to another sub's Dom? Isn't it up to the sub to keep her Dom in the "loop" as well and should she not be the one to do the introductions?

It just seems to me that if you should introduce yourself prior to the sub mentioning you to her Dom, this could cause a problem.

As far as "old school" is concerned, I did not respond as I have no idea what "old school" is other than that of the "gay" BDSM movement. So this whole thread is enlightening to me. Thanks

It is up to the sub to keep the dom in the loop, and IMO if I am befriending anothers sub, as a Dom...I should have the courage, honor, fortitude whatever you wish to call it, to introduce myself. As I said before I've never had negative feedback, furthermore I always ask the sub if they have a Dom if so who is it, and that I like to introduce myelf to them.
I'm always open, if they have a reason not to be or were tell me not to contact their Dom I would respect that, however I probably would limit future contact with that sub.