Quote Originally Posted by love2serve View Post
So it is possible. A nice guy who has a dark edge, a side he only shows to those he can possess. I knew that somewhere there would be a man like u to prove my point.... my husband is a nice guy, 28 years (20 of them married to me) worth of nice - but no darkside, no edge - an occasional flash of strength to push me to the edge of believing i'd let it loose - found his streak of controlling spirit and then... back to gentle, horny, funny, wont hurt me .... nice guy.

Sounds like my husband! He shows me the occasional flash of strength, making my heart pitter patter, then goes back to being the sweet guy that I've been with for 25 years. I love him so much but, just like you, I come to this site for that which I crave - the dark edge.

As to what TheI says above...I too worried that my desire to be submissive, to be tied and even to be 'tortured' was wrong. That subconsciously I might even be wishing for something bad to happen to me. Over time and through a lot of research and self exploration, I've found out that I have a normal, healthy kink that I am ok with. My husband is aware of my fetish, unfortunately, I just don't think he is capable of what I need to satisfy my kink. Therefore, here I am, in the forums with an online Dom.