Originally posted by ediegir:
the confusion is usually felt by others
I think you're right. The "confused" label is given by people who only know one way to go. It's not something I worry about. I like it either way and could be perfectly happy in either role. On top of that I think dom/mes who have subbed make better tops anyway. (I know, little blue guy. Relax, you'll get over it.)

Questions like, "am I more sub than dom/me" or visa versa, are not really relevant to to being a switch. Who cares? Go out and experiment and explore. The answer will come to you.

In the end, what it comes down to is you don't have to let the question bother you. If it bothers them, hey, it's their life.