Quote Originally Posted by Moonraker View Post
It seems to be the popular consensus switches are confused. Not sure why, would love to know. I certainly don't feel confused. Surely we all have a little of everything in us, its just a case of what the mix is. A lot of subbies here get very dommie at times and seem to greatly enjoy it. Is it a case of switches not being able to make their minds up. For me it's more a case of wanting a full menu to choose from then deciding what I want to eat tonight based on my mood or what the the chef's speciality is. If I had to choose just one particular dish and eat the same thing every time, it would drive me nuts. Variety is the spice of life.
Hello Moonraker <waves>~

Personally and from my experience, it's not that Switches are confused, it's that Switches are confusing to most OP. Especially those that want to or do in fact Choose a certain path for themselves...and follow Just That. Some PPL don't understand diversity, especially in OP, some PPL don't like diversity <shrugs>. I Agree that All PPL have "a little of Everything" in them. At the same time though *most* are predominantly this or that Role as PPL, and that's ok too. I also Agree that Your "full menu" ideology is more the case with *most* Switches I have met and Know, then a "can't make up their mind" thingy.

Partner here is a Switch as one of his many facets....and at the very least that alone can keep things interesting <G>. In all fairness to PPL who have a strictly defined Self and expectations of others however, Switches being as they are are tough on those types of PPL. Even someone as diverse and multi-faceted as myself. Having gone from a Strictly Self Defined *M* as Always Dominant, who taught and directed me in Topping others, was NEVER Topped by anyone else. To an *M* who is a Switch with more facets than one can imagine...but an *M* none the less. Was Very difficult for even me. What a Switch <WEG> pun intended <winks>.

Respectfully~SidheWolf