supposed to happen?

[Eponine]

Just came across this thread-
violet gem, how is it going?

I too find deep-throating very difficult, though at times I seem to get the hang of it- I have never been irritated, but maybe Master was not as deep as your dom was with you, violet.

Just wondering if anyone else has any tips (I'm going to try the swallowing thing, if i remember, next time)? The main thing is that I throw up, which I hate, because of obvious reasons, and then I am so embarrassed, though Master is kind, but still, I would like to get over it.

Sometimes, when I'm in the flow of it, and it feels pretty deep to me, I'm relaxed, but then when I think about the fact that I'm succeeding, I start feeling like I'm going to throw up, and I kind of lose my grasp on the zen of it....

Any tips??

[MajesticFae]

Just came across this thread-
violet gem, how is it going?

I too find deep-throating very difficult, though at times I seem to get the hang of it- I have never been irritated, but maybe Master was not as deep as your dom was with you, violet.

Just wondering if anyone else has any tips (I'm going to try the swallowing thing, if i remember, next time)? The main thing is that I throw up, which I hate, because of obvious reasons, and then I am so embarrassed, though Master is kind, but still, I would like to get over it.

Sometimes, when I'm in the flow of it, and it feels pretty deep to me, I'm relaxed, but then when I think about the fact that I'm succeeding, I start feeling like I'm going to throw up, and I kind of lose my grasp on the zen of it....

Any tips??

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ghlight=Reflex

I found this thread just searching about "gag reflex" on the forums... maybe it will help you suppress yours! =) Good luck!