Hard limit questionaire for both Doms and subs to help them find long term partners

[Sir_Russell]

BrookLynn
I see you are a switch and that sorta explains why your answers seem to be a bit all over.

You have strong tendencies toward being a pain slut, but I also see a desire to submit. I get that from the absence of NO NO or NO 0 answers.

I bet that the ones you share with are well pleased with you.

[cream _(DNW)]

BrookLynn
I see you are a switch and that sorta explains why your answers seem to be a bit all over.

You have strong tendencies toward being a pain slut, but I also see a desire to submit. I get that from the absence of NO NO or NO 0 answers.

I bet that the ones you share with are well pleased with you.

yes the subs I have are very pleased with me as there domme.
My Master seems to be happy with how good I am doing as a sub,seeing how I just opened up to doing it after months of nothing but dommeing.Thank you for posting this it was a big help for me.And my Master was well pleased to see what I would do and how are I was willing to go.
look forward to talking with you some time

[Sir_Russell]

Logic1
Went back and reread the Dom instructions and you are right, I forgot to include that these were things you enjoyed doing to your submissive.

Also from what I read here we are a lot alike in our life choices

[Logic1]

Logic1
Went back and reread the Dom instructions and you are right, I forgot to include that these were things you enjoyed doing to your submissive.

Also from what I read here we are a lot alike in our life choices

yes that is how I interpreted it and answered accordingly.

got the sleepsack wrong though couldnt get what could be sexy about a sleepingbag but sex in one is warm and close and cramped and nice and sweaty lol.
should then have been a NO 3 but *shrugs*

[gagged_Louise]

I guess the sleeping bag is to be seen as a form of bondage mummification - having your sub totallly enclosed and with ropes both on his/her body and outside the bag. Ball gag and hood could be added.

I've seen that kind in pics a few times, can't say it's a very hot turn-on to me though. Latex hood on the other hand is something I'd love to try...

[Sir_Russell]

Oh my a sleep sack is a latex or plastic bag that is vacuumed till it is skin tight.

[mysc]

Here is mine...



Abrasion: Yes 3 Mostly it's a side effect
Age play: Yes 3
Anal sex: Yes 5 yes please... and more..
Anal plugs (small): Yes 4
Anal plugs (large): Yes 4
Anal plug (public, under clothes): No 4
Animal roles: No No
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): No 4
Asphyxiation: Yes 4
Auctioned for charity: No No *maybe a 2 as a fantasy play..but not for real*
Bathroom use control: Yes 4
Bestiality: No No
Beating (soft): Yes 5
Beating (hard): Yes 5/6
Blindfolds: Yes 4
Being serviced (sexual): Yes 2
Being bitten: Yes 4
Breast/chest bondage: Yes 4
Breath control: Yes 5
Branding: No 1
Boot worship: No 0
Bondage (light): Yes 5
Bondage (heavy): Yes 5
Bondage (multi-day): No 1
Bondage (public, under clothing): Yes 3
Bondage and Sex: Yes 5
Breast whipping: Yes 4
Brown showers (scat): No No
Cages (locked inside of): No 3
Caning: Yes 4
Catheterization: No No
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): Yes 3
Chastity belts: No 3
Chauffeuring: No and if I get my drivers license it is a 2 prob.
Choking: Yes 3
Clothespins breast/nipples: Yes 4
Clothespins labia lips/clit: Yes 4
Clothespins body: Yes 4
Cock worship: Yes 4
Collars (worn in private): Yes 5
Collars (worn in public): Yes 4
Competitions (with other Subs): No 0
Corsets (wearing): Yes 4
Cuffs: Yes 5
Cuffs (metal): Yes 5
Cutting: No 1
Dilation: Yes 3
Double penetration: Yes 4
Electricity: No 2
Enemas: Yes 4
Enforced chastity: Yes 3
Examinations (physical): Yes 4
Exercise (forced/required): No 1
Exhibitionism (friends): No 2
Exhibitionism (strangers): Yes 2
Eye contact restrictions: Yes 3
Face slapping: Yes 4
Fantasy abandonment: No 3
Fantasy rape: No 4
Fantasy forced deep throat: No 4
Fantasy forced cunt licking: No 3
Fantasy forced rape anal: No 4
Fantasy gang-rape: No 3
Fisting (anal): No No
Fisting (vaginal): Yes YES! ehm 5
Flogging: Yes 5
Following hand signals: No 3
Following orders: Yes 4
Foot worship: No 3
Forced dressing: No 4
Forced homosexuality: No... no need to
Forced masturbation: Yes 4
Forced nudity (private): Yes 5
Forced nudity (around others): No 2
Forced servitude: No 2
Full head hoods: No 1
Gags (cloth): Yes 4
Gags (penis shaped): No 4
Gags (rubber): Yes 4
Gags (tape): No 3
Gates of Hell: NA
Genital sex: Yes 5
Given away to another Dom (temp): No 1
Given away to another Domme (temp): No 1
Given away to another Dom (perm): No No
Given away to another Domme (perm):No No
Golden showers: Yes 2
Greetings rituals: No 4
Hairbrush spankings: Yes 4
Hair pulling: Yes 5
Hand jobs (giving): Yes 5
Hand jobs (receiving): Yes 5
Harems (serving w/other subs): No 1
Harnessing (leather): Yes 4
Harnessing (rope): Yes 5
Having food chosen for you: No 3
Having clothing chosen for you: No 3
Head (giving cunnilingus): Yes 3
Head (giving fellatio): Yes 4
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): Yes 4
Head (receiving fellatio male only): NA
High heel worship: No No
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): Yes 3
Hot oils (on genitals): No 3
Hot waxing: No 3
Housework (doing): No 4 (if forced... normally it would be a 1 haha)
Human puppy dog: No 2
Humiliation (private): Yes 4
Humiliation (public): No 2
Hypnotism: No No
Ice cubes: No ...ehm I really hate cold... but then again do I have a choice? ..
Infantilism: No No
Initiation rites: No 3
Injections: No 1
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: Yes 4
Interrogations: No 3
Kidnapping: No 3
Kneeling: Yes 4
Leather clothing: Yes 4
restraints chains: Yes 4
restraints leather: Yes 4
restraints rope: Yes 4
Lectures for misbehavior: Yes 4
Licking (non-sexual): Yes 3
Manacles & Irons: No 3
Manicures (giving): No 2
Massage (giving): Yes 4
Massage (receiving): Yes 4
Medical scenes: No 3

Modeling for erotic photos: Yes 3
Modeling for erotic videos: No 2
Mouth bits: No 3
Mummification: No 3
Nipple clamps: Yes 4
Nipple cloths pins: Yes 4
Nipple weights: Yes 3
Oral/anal play (rimming): Yes 4
Over-the-knee spanking: Yes 4
Orgasm denial: Yes 4
Orgasm control: Yes 4
Outdoor scenes: No 4
Outdoor sex: Yes 3
Phone sex (serving Dom): No 2
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): No No
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): No No
Piercing (permanent): Yes 3 (have one...)
Prison scenes: Yes 4
Pony slave: No 2
Public exposure: No 1
Public tasks: No 2
Pussy/cock whipping: Yes 4
Pussy worship: No 2
Riding crops: YES 5
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): Yes 4
Rituals: No 3
Religious scenes: No 2
Restrictive rules on behavior: Yes 4
Rubber/latex clothing: Yes 3
Rope body harness: Yes 4
Saran wrapping: No 3
Scratching – getting: Yes 5
Scratching – giving: Yes 2
Sensory deprivation: Yes 4
Serving: Yes 3
Serving as art: ... in doubt lol 3
Serving as ashtray: No No
Serving as furniture: No 2
Serving as a maid: Yes 3
Serving as toilet: No No
Serving as waitress/waiter: No 2
Serving orally (sexual): Yes 4
Serving other Doms (supervised): No 2
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): No 1
Sexual deprivation (short term): No 3
Sexual deprivation (long term): No 1
Shaving (body hair): Yes 5
Shaving (head hair): No No
Shaving (pubic hair): Yes 5
Sleep deprivation: No 2
Sleep-sacks: No 3
Slutty clothing (private): Yes 5
Slutty clothing (public): Yes 4
Spanking in private: Yes 5
Spanking in public: No No
Spanking in bdsm parties: No Yes
Spanking pleasure: Yes 5
Spandex clothing: No 1
Speech restrictions (when, what): No 4
Speculums (Anal): No 3
Speculums (vaginal): Yes 4
Spreader bars: No 4
Standing in corner: Yes 4
Stocks (adjustable): Yes 4
Stocks (fixed): Yes 4
Straight jackets: No 3
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): No 3
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): Yes 4
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): No 2
Strapping (full body beating): Yes 4
Suspension (upright); Yes 4
Suspension (inverted): No 2
Suspension (horizontal): No 3
Supplying new partners for Dom: No No
Swallowing semen: Yes 5
Swallowing urine: Yes 2
Swapping (with one other couple): Yes 2 (ages ago)
Swinging (multiple couples): Yes 2 (same.. good ol days)
Tattooing: Yes 4
Teasing: Yes 4
Tickling: No ... NOOooooooooooooooooooo
Triple penetration: Yes 5
Triple penetration by 3 males: YAY.. yes.. 5
Uniforms: Yes 3
Including others: Yes 3
Vaginal dildo: Yes 4
Verbal humiliation: Yes 5
Vibrator on genitals: Yes 5
Voyeurism (watching others): Yes 3
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): Yes 3
Video (watching others): Yes 3
Video (recordings of you): Yes... 2
Water torture: No 4
Wearing symbolic jewelry: Yes 5
Whipping: Yes 5
Wooden paddles: Yes 5
Wrestling: No 1

[Sir_Russell]

Where were you when I was searching.

Mysc, I think you would make 98% of the Dominants out there very happy.

Find a good one and live happy.

[mysc]

Thanks Sir Russel
I have one... just need to be patient ... (see "am I driving myself crazy")

[Xanthos]

asterisks apply everywhere, just so you know


Abrasion: yes 4
Age play: no 1
Anal sex: yes 5
Anal plugs (small): yes 4
Anal plugs (large):no 3
Anal plug (public, under clothes):no 2
Animal roles:no 0
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders):no 4
Asphyxiation:yes 3-4
Auctioned for charity:NO
Bathroom use control:yes 2 - she asks, when we're "on". That's what it's about - no further desire to deny her this - but she asks nicely.
Bestiality:NO
Beating (soft):yes 4
Beating (hard):yes 4
Blindfolds:yes 4
Being serviced (sexual):yes 3
Being bitten: yes 3 ( and I DO bite back, whaddayathink!)
Breast/chest bondage:no 1 The extreme bind-em-till-they-turn-a-funny-color version that is. As part of a full-torso bondage, that's...different
Breath control:yes 3-4. See asphyxiation
Branding:NO
Boot worship:no 0
Bondage (light):yes 4-5
Bondage (heavy):yes 3-4
Bondage (multi-day):no 2
Bondage (public, under clothing):yes 3
Breast whipping:yes 3
Brown showers (scat):NO
Cages (locked inside of):no 2-3
Caning:yes 4
Catheterization:no 1
Cells/Closets (locked inside of):no 1
Chastity belts:no 3
Chauffeuring:no 2 (get a licence, you! - Like I'm gonna let anyone else drive...)
Choking:yes 3 (see asphyxiation)
Clothespins: yes 4
Cock worship: yes 3
Collars (worn in private):yes 4
Collars (worn in public):yes 3
Competitions (with other Subs):NO
Corsets (wearing):yes 3
Cuffs:yes 4
Cuffs (metal):yes 4 (just the collar, mind)
Cutting:NO
Dilation:no-aside from side effects of fun things...1
Double penetration:yes 4
Electricity:no 2
Enemas:yes 3
Enforced chastity:no 2
Examinations (physical): well naturally! Oh, you mean playing a doctor? no. 2.
Exercise (forced/required):no 2
Exhibitionism (friends):no 0
Exhibitionism (strangers):NO
Eye contact restrictions:yes 3 (although I wonder if she actually experiences it that way)
Face slapping:yes 3-4
Fantasy abandonment:no 1
Fantasy rape:no 1
Fantasy gang-rape:NO
Fisting (anal):no 0
Fisting (vaginal):yes 4
Following orders:yes 3
Foot worship:no 0
Forced dressing:yes 3
Forced homosexuality:NO
Forced masturbation:yes 3
Forced nudity (private):yes 3
Forced nudity (around others):NO
Forced servitude:yes 2-4. Depends on the moment, strangely enough.
Full head hoods:no 3
Gags (cloth):no 3
Gags (rubber):yes 3
Gags (tape):no 2
Gates of Hell (male) n/a
Genital sex:yes 4 through 6
Given away to another Dom (temp):NO
Given away to another Dom (perm):NO
Golden showers:no 0
Hairbrush spankings:yes 4
Hair pulling:yes 4
Hand jobs (giving):yes 4
Hand jobs (receiving):yes 4
Harems (serving w/other subs):NO
Harnessing (leather):yes 3
Harnessing (rope):yes 4 (plus)
Choosing food for sub:no 2
Choosing clothing for sub:yes 2
Head (giving fellatio):yes 5
Head (receiving fellatio): yes 5
High heel worship:no.0.
Homage with tongue (non-sexual):no 1
Hot oils (on genitals):no 2
Hot waxing:yes 3
Housework (doing):hell no. haha 1
Human puppy dog:no 0
Humiliation (private):yes 3
Humiliation (public):no 0
Hypnotism:no 0
Ice cubes:yes 4
Infantilism:no 0
Initiation rites:no 2
Injections:NO
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage:yes 4
Interrogations:no 1
Kidnapping:no 2. well, 3.
Kneeling:yes 3
Leather clothing:yes 3
restraints:yes 4
Lectures for misbehavior:yes 3
Licking (non-sexual):yes 2
Manacles & Irons:no 3-4
Manicures (giving):no 1
Massage (giving):yes 4
Massage (receiving):yes 5
Medical scenes:no 1
Modeling for erotic photos:yes 4
Mouth bits:no 2
Mummification:no 2 (curious tho')
Nipple clamps:yes 5
Nipple weights:no 3
Oral/anal play (rimming):yes 3
Over-the-knee spanking:yes 3
Orgasm denial:no 2
Orgasm control:yes 4
Outdoor scenes:no 2
Outdoor sex:no 3
Phone sex (serving Dom):no 3
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends):NO
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce):NO
Piercing (permanent):no 2
Prison scenes no 0
Pony slave:no 0
Public exposure:no 2
Pussy/cock whipping:yes 3-4
Pussy worship:yes. I adore my sub.
Riding crops:yes 3-4
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.):no 2
Rituals:no 2
Religious scenes:NO
Restrictive rules on behavior:yes 3
Rubber/latex clothing:yes 3
Rope body harness:yes 3
Saran wrapping:no 3 (curious)
Scratching – getting:yes 3-4
Scratching – giving:yes 4-5
Sensory deprivation:yes 3-4
Serving:yes 2-3
Serving as art:no 0
Serving as ashtray:NO
Serving as furniture:no 1
Serving as a maid:yes 2-3
Serving as toilet:NO
Serving as waitress/waiter:yes 2
Serving orally (sexual):yes 4
Serving other Doms (supervised):NO
Serving other Doms (unsupervised):NO
Sexual deprivation (short term):yes 3
Sexual deprivation (long term):NO
Shaving (body hair):yes 4-5
Shaving (head hair):yes 0
Sleep deprivation:no 0
Sleepsacks:no 1
Slutty clothing (private):yes 3
Slutty clothing (public):yes 3
Spanking:yes 4
Spandex clothing:no. not a big BonJovi fan. 1
Speech restrictions (when, what):yes 3
Speculums (Anal):no 0
Speculums (vaginal):no 0
Spreader bars:no 4
Standing in corner:yes 3+
Stocks (adjustable):no 3-ish
Straight jackets:no 2
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on):yes 4
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by):yes 4
Strap-on-dildos (wearing):yes 4
Strapping (full body beating):no 3
Suspension (upright);no 3
Suspension (inverted):no 2
Suspension (horizontal):no 2-3
Supplying new partners for Dom:NO
Swallowing semen:yes 4
Swallowing urine:NO
Swapping (with one other couple):no 0
Swinging (multiple couples):NO
Tattooing:yes 3. Not as part of a game, though.
Teasing:yes 5 (grin)
Tickling:yes. yeeeeeesss...
Triple penetration: yes 4 (w/dildo's etc)
Uniforms:no 3
Including others:no 0
Vaginal dildo:yes 5
Verbal humiliation:yes 4
Vibrator on genitals:yes 5
Voyeurism (watching others):no 2
Voyeurism (your sub w/others) NO
Video (watching others):no (not together) 2-3?
Video (recordings of you):no 3
Water torture:no 3 (4?) (intrigued)
Wearing symbolic jewelry:yes 4
Whipping yes 4
Wooden paddles:yes 4
Wrestling:yes 3 (in good fun, not serious)

[wingsofanangel]

I've been away.. but coming back re-reading this and seeing your answer Sir Russell.. I still got happy lil chill bumps on my neck ..

-giggles-

thanks again.

[Sir_Russell]

Xanthos
Your kinks differ quite a bit from mine but that is what makes the life so large.

I think well of you as a Dom since you adore your sub/slave great part of the life that far too many miss

[Xanthos]

Sir Russel,
the compliment is greatly appreciated.
I made a conscious choice not to read Mysc's list before I filed out mine, and although I'm always a bit conservative when scores are concerned it actually looks okay. It's nice to put these lists together!

[zasvig]

this is a good stuff ill be filling one out tonight and giving it to my mistress

[Sir_Russell]

zasvig
Try to get her to take the Dom/me on before you give her yours. that way you have a beggining point without prejudicing her responses.

You will do well as a sub remember that male subs have a tougher time of it then do the female subs.

[Sir_Russell]

Xanthos
remember they are starting points for negotiating limits and hopefully a full contract

[TomOfSweden]

It's not a very romantic/erotic list is it?

[Sir_Russell]

it was never intended to be romantic but it is damn erotic

[jon73]

Might want to consider adding "vacuum bed..."

[ladysinaz]

There is alot of ish and i dunno in filling this out )



Abrasion: no 2
Age play:no no
Anal sex:yes 3
Anal plugs (small):yes 3
Anal plugs (large):no 2
Anal plug (public, under clothes): no 1
Animal roles: no 1
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): no 2
Asphyxiation: no 2
Auctioned for charity: no 2
Bathroom use control: no 1
Bestiality: no no
Beating (soft): yes 3
Beating (hard): no 2
Blindfolds: yes 3
Being serviced (sexual): yes 3
Being bitten: yes 4
Breast/chest bondage: no 1
Breath control: no 1
Branding: no no
Boot worship: no no
Bondage (light): yes 4
Bondage (heavy): no 3
Bondage (multi-day): no 1
Bondage (public, under clothing): no 1
Bondage and Sex: yes 4
Breast whipping: no 1
Brown showers (scat): no no
Cages (locked inside of): no 1
Caning: no 2
Catheterization: no no
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): no 1
Chastity belts: no 1
Chauffeuring: no 1
Choking: yes 3
Clothespins breast/nipples: no 1
Clothespins labia lips/clit: no 1
Clothespins body: no 1
Cock worship: not sure if worship would be the correct term but---yes
Collars (worn in private): yes 4
Collars (worn in public):yes 4
Competitions (with other Subs): no 2
Corsets (wearing): no 1
Cuffs: no 2
Cuffs (metal): no 2
Cutting: no 1
Dilation: no ?
Double penetration: no 3
Electricity: no 2
Enemas: no 1
Enforced chastity: no 1
Examinations (physical): no 1
Exercise (forced/required): no 2
Exhibitionism (friends): yes 2
Exhibitionism (strangers): yes 2
Eye contact restrictions: no 2
Face slapping: no no
Fantasy abandonment: no 1
Fantasy rape: no 3
Fantasy forced deep throat: no 1
Fantasy forced cunt licking: no 1
Fantasy forced rape anal: no 1
Fantasy gang-rape: no 1
Fisting (anal): no no
Fisting (vaginal): yes 2
Flogging: no 3
Following hand signals: no 2
Following orders: yes 2
Foot worship: no no
Forced dressing: no 3
Forced homosexuality: no 3
Forced masturbation: no 3
Forced nudity (private): no 3
Forced nudity (around others): no 3
Forced servitude: no 3
Full head hoods: no 1
Gags (cloth): no 1
Gags (penis shaped):no 1
Gags (rubber): no 1
Gags (tape): no 1
Gates of Hell: ?? n o
Genital sex: yes 4
Given away to another Dom (temp): ish 2
Given away to another Domme (temp): no 2
Given away to another Dom (perm): no 1
Given away to another Domme (perm): no 1
Golden showers: no no
Greetings rituals: no 2
Hairbrush spankings: no 3
Hair pulling: yes 4
Hand jobs (giving): yes 4
Hand jobs (receiving):
Harems (serving w/other subs): no 3
Harnessing (leather): no 3
Harnessing (rope): no 3
Having food chosen for you: no 2
Having clothing chosen for you: no 2
Head (giving cunnilingus): yes 3
Head (giving fellatio): yes 3
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): yes 4
Head (receiving fellatio male only): n/a
High heel worship: no 1
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): no 1
Hot oils (on genitals): no 3
Hot waxing: yes 3
Housework (doing): not for play  3
Human puppy dog: no 1
Humiliation (private): no 2
Humiliation (public): no 2
Hypnotism: no no
Ice cubes: yes 2
Infantilism: no no
Initiation rites: no 1
Injections: no no
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: no 1
Interrogations: no 1
Kidnapping: no 1
Kneeling: yes 4
Leather clothing:yes 3
restraints chains: no 3
restraints leather: yes 3
restraints rope: yes 3
Lectures for misbehavior: yes 4
Licking (non-sexual): no 2
Manacles & Irons: no 3
Manicures (giving): no 3
Massage (giving): yes 3
Massage (receiving): yes 4
Medical scenes: no 1

Modeling for erotic photos: yes 3
Modeling for erotic videos: yes 3
Mouth bits: no 1
Mummification: no no
Nipple clamps: no 1
Nipple cloths pins: no 1
Nipple weights: no 1
Oral/anal play (rimming): yes 3
Over-the-knee spanking: yes 4
Orgasm denial: yes 3
Orgasm control: no 3
Outdoor scenes: no 2
Outdoor sex: no 1
Phone sex (serving Dom): no 1
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no 1
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): no 1
Piercing (permanent): no 1
Prison scenes: no 1
Pony slave: no 1
Public exposure: no 2
Public tasks: no 2
Pussy/cock whipping: no 3
Pussy worship: no 3
Riding crops: yes 3
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): no 3
Rituals: no 2
Religious scenes: no 1
Restrictive rules on behavior: no 3
Rubber/latex clothing: no 3
Rope body harness: no 3
Saran wrapping:no 3
Scratching – getting: no 3
Scratching – giving: yes 3
Sensory deprivation: no 3
Serving: no 3
Serving as art: no 3
Serving as ashtray: no 1
Serving as furniture: no 3
Serving as a maid: no 3
Serving as toilet: no no
Serving as waitress/waiter: no 3
Serving orally (sexual): yes 3
Serving other Doms (supervised): no 2
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no 2
Sexual deprivation (short term): no 2
Sexual deprivation (long term): no 2
Shaving (body hair): yes 3
Shaving (head hair): no no
Shaving (pubic hair): yes 4
Sleep deprivation: no 1
Sleep-sacks: no 1
Slutty clothing (private): yes 3
Slutty clothing (public): yes 3
Spanking in private: yes 4
Spanking in public: no 2
Spanking in bdsm parties: no 3
Spanking pleasure: yes 3
Spandex clothing: no 2
Speech restrictions (when, what): no 2
Speculums (Anal): no 1
Speculums (vaginal): no 1
Spreader bars: no 3
Standing in corner: no 3
Stocks (adjustable): no 1
Stocks (fixed): no 1
Straight jackets: no 1
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): no 2
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): yes 2
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): no 2
Strapping (full body beating): no 1
Suspension (upright); no 1
Suspension (inverted): no 1
Suspension (horizontal): no 1
Supplying new partners for Dom: no 2
Swallowing semen: no 1
Swallowing urine: no no
Swapping (with one other couple): no 2
Swinging (multiple couples): no 2
Tattooing: have some but not for scenes
Teasing: yes 3
Tickling: yes 3
Triple penetration: no 2
Triple penetration by 3 males: no 1
Uniforms: yes 3
Including others: yes 2
Vaginal dildo: yes 3
Verbal humiliation: no 2
Vibrator on genitals: yes 4
Voyeurism (watching others): yes 4
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): no 4
Video (watching others): yes 3
Video (recordings of you): yes 2
Water torture: no 1
Wearing symbolic jewelry: no 1
Whipping: no 3
Wooden paddles: no 3
Wrestling:no 3

[Sir_Russell]

ladysinaz

Fairly unusual in that you have not selected any 5 and only a few 4s. Are you new to the life?

I was impressed with the lack of no no shows that you are open to experiences.

A bood Dominant may open you up and show you the joy of the Life.

[Gr1m'sGirl]

Abrasion: yes 3
Age play: yes 3
Anal sex: yes 2
Anal plugs (small): yes 4
Anal plugs (large): yes 2
Anal plug (public, under clothes): yes 2
Animal roles: yes 1
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): yes 2
Asphyxiation: yes 3
Auctioned for charity: no
Bathroom use control: no
Bestiality: yes 5
Beating (soft): yes 5
Beating (hard): yes 1
Blindfolds: yes 5
Being serviced (sexual): yes 3
Being bitten: yes 2
Breast/chest bondage: yes 4
Breath control: yes 0
Branding: NO
Boot worship: yes 0
Bondage (light): yes 5
Bondage (heavy): yes 3
Bondage (multi-day): yes 2
Bondage (public, under clothing): yes 0
Bondage and Sex: yes 5
Breast whipping: yes 1-2
Brown showers (scat): no
Cages (locked inside of): yes 0
Caning: yes 5
Catheterization: no
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): yes 0
Chastity belts: yes 0
Chauffeuring: yes 0
Choking: yes 4
Clothespins breast/nipples: yes 4
Clothespins labia lips/clit: yes 3
Clothespins body: yes 1
Cock worship: yes 5
Collars (worn in private): yes 5
Collars (worn in public): yes 5
Competitions (with other Subs): yes 0
Corsets (wearing): yes 5
Cuffs: yes 5
Cuffs (metal): yes 5
Cutting: yes 4
Dilation: no
Double penetration: yes 5
Electricity: yes 0
Enemas: yes 1
Enforced chastity: yes 0
Examinations (physical): yes 0
Exercise (forced/required): yes 0
Exhibitionism (friends): yes 5
Exhibitionism (strangers): yes 5
Eye contact restrictions: yes 1
Face slapping: yes 3
Fantasy abandonment: yes 0
Fantasy rape: yes 5
Fantasy forced deep throat: yes 5
Fantasy forced cunt licking: yes 5
Fantasy forced rape anal: yes 5
Fantasy gang-rape: yes 5
Fisting (anal): yes 0
Fisting (vaginal): yes 2
Flogging: yes 4
Following hand signals: yes 0
Following orders: yes 4
Foot worship: yes 2
Forced dressing: yes 5
Forced homosexuality: yes 3
Forced masturbation: yes 1
Forced nudity (private): yes 4
Forced nudity (around others): yes 4
Forced servitude: yes 5
Full head hoods: yes 0 (Afraid of having head fully covered.)
Gags (cloth): yes 2
Gags (penis shaped): yes 2
Gags (rubber): yes 2
Gags (tape): yes 4
Gates of Hell: n/a
Genital sex: yes 5
Given away to another Dom (temp): yes 1
Given away to another Domme (temp): yes 1
Given away to another Dom (perm): no
Given away to another Domme (perm): no
Golden showers: no
Greetings rituals: yes 3
Hairbrush spankings: yes 5
Hair pulling: yes 5
Hand jobs (giving): yes 4
Hand jobs (receiving): Fingering, yes 5
Harems (serving w/other subs): no
Harnessing (leather): yes 5
Harnessing (rope): yes 5
Having food chosen for you: yes 0
Having clothing chosen for you: yes 3
Head (giving cunnilingus): yes 2
Head (giving fellatio): yes 5
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): yes 4
Head (receiving fellatio male only): n/a
High heel worship: yes 0
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): yes 0
Hot oils (on genitals): yes 1
Hot waxing: yes 1
Housework (doing): yes 1
Human puppy dog: yes 0
Humiliation (private): yes 4
Humiliation (public): yes 4
Hypnotism: yes 0
Ice cubes: yes 1
Infantilism: yes 0
Initiation rites: yes 1
Injections: no
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: yes 4
Interrogations: yes 1
Kidnapping: yes 4
Kneeling: yes 2
Leather clothing: yes 4
restraints chains: yes 3
restraints leather: yes 5
restraints rope: yes5
Lectures for misbehavior: yes 1
Licking (non-sexual): yes 1
Manacles & Irons: yes 2
Manicures (giving): yes 1
Massage (giving): yes 5
Massage (receiving): yes 5
Medical scenes: yes 1
Modeling for erotic photos: yes 5
Modeling for erotic videos: yes 5
Mouth bits: yes 1
Mummification: yes 0
Nipple clamps: yes 3
Nipple cloths pins: yes 3
Nipple weights: yes 1
Oral/anal play (rimming): yes 1
Over-the-knee spanking: yes 5
Orgasm denial: yes 1
Orgasm control: yes 4
Outdoor scenes: yes 2
Outdoor sex: yes 2
Phone sex (serving Dom): yes 5
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): yes 1
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): yes 1
Piercing (permanent): yes 4
Prison scenes: yes 3
Pony slave: yes 1
Public exposure: yes 4
Public tasks: yes 3
Pussy/cock whipping: yes 4
Pussy worship: yes 3
Riding crops: 4
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): 3
Rituals: yes 2
Religious scenes: yes 5
Restrictive rules on behavior: yes 4
Rubber/latex clothing: yes 2
Rope body harness: yes 5
Saran wrapping:yes 5
Scratching – getting: yes 3
Scratching – giving: yes 4
Sensory deprivation: yes 1
Serving: yes 3
Serving as art: yes 3
Serving as ashtray: yes 1
Serving as furniture: yes 3
Serving as a maid: yes 4
Serving as toilet: no
Serving as waitress/waiter: yes 1
Serving orally (sexual): yes 5
Serving other Doms (supervised): yes 4
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): yes 2
Sexual deprivation (short term): yes 1
Sexual deprivation (long term): yes 0
Shaving (body hair): yes 2
Shaving (head hair): no
Shaving (pubic hair): yes 2
Sleep deprivation: yes 3
Sleep-sacks: yes 1
Slutty clothing (private): yes 5
Slutty clothing (public): yes 4
Spanking in private: yes 5
Spanking in public: yes 2
Spanking in bdsm parties: yes 5
Spanking pleasure:yes 5
Spandex clothing: yes 2
Speech restrictions (when, what): yes 2
Speculums (Anal): yes 0
Speculums (vaginal): yes 0
Spreader bars: yes 5
Standing in corner: yes 1
Stocks (adjustable): yes 2
Stocks (fixed): yes 2
Straight jackets: yes 1
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): yes 4
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): yes 4
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): yes 3
Strapping (full body beating): yes 2
Suspension (upright); yes 2
Suspension (inverted): yes 3
Suspension (horizontal): yes 4
Supplying new partners for Dom: yes 0
Swallowing semen: yes 2
Swallowing urine: no
Swapping (with one other couple): yes 1
Swinging (multiple couples): yes 3
Tattooing: yes 3
Teasing: yes 5
Tickling: NO.
Triple penetration: yes 5
Triple penetration by 3 males: yes 5
Uniforms: yes 4
Including others: yes 5
Vaginal dildo: yes 4
Verbal humiliation: yes 5
Vibrator on genitals: yes 5
Voyeurism (watching others): yes 5
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): Not quite understanding this one, my dom with other people and me watching or them watching me?
Video (watching others): yes 5
Video (recordings of you): yes 3
Water torture: yes 1
Wearing symbolic jewelry: yes 5
Whipping: yes 4
Wooden paddles: yes 4
Wrestling:yes 4


Yes means I will try it or have tried it, No means no chance. 1-5 on how much I enjoy it.

I am happily owned by Gr1m.

[Sir_Russell]

and you should make him very happy. Very nice responses.

For others please remember the no no is no fucking way.

[ladysinaz]

yes Sir Russel,
i am new to it all, not so much in my head and had some minor experiences with a dominating type a few yrs back. I have very little Real life experience with most things on the list. If i am fully submitted i am willing to at least try most things.. I always say, try everything once, twice usually just to make sure you didn't like it the first time

[sub-butterfly]

Submissive BDSM Play Partner Check List

This questionnaire should be filled out by a sub and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them. This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common ground for play.

For each item, you need to provide two answers:
First write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
Next, indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.

NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).

0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit").

1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it were asked of you by your Dominant.

2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.

3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.

4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.

5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.

Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with you current sex partner(s), but not with casual play-partners.

Note any additional information, which might be important for your Dom to know.

There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.

Experience, Willingness Question or Comments
yes/no NO or 0-5 written in by sub


Abrasion: Yes 4
Age play: No 1
Anal sex: No 1
Anal plugs (small):Yes 2
Anal plugs (large): Yes 2
Anal plug (public, under clothes): Yes 2
Animal roles: No 1
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): No 4
Asphyxiation: Yes 5
Auctioned for charity: No 3
Bathroom use control: Yes (slightly) 3
Bestiality: No No
Beating (soft): Yes 4
Beating (hard): No 3
Blindfolds: No 4
Being serviced (sexual): No 4
Being bitten: Yes 5
Breast/chest bondage: Yes 5
Breath control: No 4
Branding: No 2
Boot worship: No 1
Bondage (light): Yes 5
Bondage (heavy): Yes 4
Bondage (multi-day): No 4
Bondage (public, under clothing): No 4
Bondage and Sex: Yes 5
Breast whipping: No 4
Brown showers (scat): No No
Cages (locked inside of): No 2
Caning: No 3
Catheterization: No 1
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): No 2
Chastity belts: Yes(brief) 4
Chauffeuring: No 3
Choking: No 4
Clothespins breast/nipples: Yes 5
Clothespins body: Yes 4
Cock worship: Yes 4
Collars (worn in private): No 4
Collars (worn in public): No 4
Competitions (with other Subs): No 2
Corsets (wearing): No 5
Cuffs: Yes 4
Cuffs (metal): No 4
Cutting: No 2
Dilation: No 3
Double penetration: No 2
Electricity: No 3
Enemas: No 2
Enforced chastity: No 3
Examinations (physical): No 3
Exercise (forced/required): No 4
Exhibitionism (friends): No 2
Exhibitionism (strangers): No 1
Eye contact restrictions: Yes 3
Face slapping: No 4
Fantasy abandonment: No 3
Fantasy rape: No 2
Fantasy forced deep throat: No 3
Fantasy forced cunt licking: N/A
Fantasy forced rape anal: No No
Fantasy gang-rape: No 1
Fisting (anal): No 1
Fisting (vaginal): No 2
Flogging: No 4
Following hand signals: No 3
Following orders: Yes 4
Foot worship: No 1
Forced dressing: No 3
Forced homosexuality: No 1
Forced masturbation: Yes 4
Forced nudity (private): Yes 4
Forced nudity (around others): No 2
Forced servitude: No 3
Full head hoods: No 2
Gags (cloth): Yes 4
Gags (penis shaped): No 3
Gags (rubber): No 4
Gags (tape): No 4
Gates of Hell: No 2
Genital sex: Yes 4
Given away to another Dom (temp): No 1
Given away to another Domme (temp): No 1
Given away to another Dom (perm): No No
Given away to another Domme (perm): No No
Golden showers: No No
Greetings rituals: No 3
Hairbrush spankings: No 4
Hair pulling: Yes 5
Hand jobs (giving): Yes 4
Hand jobs (receiving): N/A
Harems (serving w/other subs): No 2
Harnessing (leather): No 3
Harnessing (rope): Yes 4
Having food chosen for you: No 2
Having clothing chosen for you: No 3
Head (giving cunnilingus): N/A
Head (giving fellatio): Yes 4
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): Yes 4
Head (receiving fellatio male only): N/A
High heel worship: N/A
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): No 3
Hot oils (on genitals): No 2
Hot waxing: Yes 3
Housework (doing): Yes 3
Human puppy dog: No 1
Humiliation (private): Yes 3
Humiliation (public): No 2
Hypnotism: No 2
Ice cubes: Yes 5
Infantilism: No 1
Initiation rites: No ?
Injections: No No
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: Yes 5
Interrogations: No 2
Kidnapping: No 2
Kneeling: Yes 3
Leather clothing: No 3
restraints chains: No 4
restraints leather: No 4
restraints rope: No 4
Lectures for misbehavior: No 2
Licking (non-sexual): No 3
Manacles & Irons: No 2
Manicures (giving): No 2
Massage (giving): Yes 4
Massage (receiving): Yes 4
Medical scenes: No 2

Modeling for erotic photos: No 4
Modeling for erotic videos: No 4
Mouth bits: No 3
Mummification: No 3
Nipple clamps: No 4
Nipple cloths pins: Yes 5
Nipple weights: No 3
Oral/anal play (rimming): No 2
Over-the-knee spanking: No 3
Orgasm denial: Yes 4
Orgasm control: Yes 4
Outdoor scenes: No 3
Outdoor sex: Yes 5
Phone sex (serving Dom): No 4
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): No 1
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): No 3
Piercing (permanent): No 1
Prison scenes: No 3
Pony slave: No 2
Public exposure: No 2
Public tasks: Yes 3
Pussy/cock whipping: No 3
Pussy worship: N/A
Riding crops: No 2
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): No 2
Rituals: No 2
Religious scenes: No 1
Restrictive rules on behavior: Yes 3
Rubber/latex clothing: No 4
Rope body harness: Yes 5
Saran wrapping: No ?
Scratching – getting: Yes 4
Scratching – giving: Yes 3
Sensory deprivation: No 3
Serving: No 4
Serving as art: No 3
Serving as ashtray: No 2
Serving as furniture: No 3
Serving as a maid: No 3
Serving as toilet: No No
Serving as waitress/waiter: No 3
Serving orally (sexual): No 4
Serving other Doms (supervised): No 2
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): No 1
Sexual deprivation (short term): No 3
Sexual deprivation (long term): No 1
Shaving (body hair): Yes 3
Shaving (head hair): No No
Shaving (pubic hair): Yes 3
Sleep deprivation: No 1
Sleep-sacks: No 2
Slutty clothing (private): Yes 4
Slutty clothing (public): No 3
Spanking in private: Yes 4
Spanking in public: No 2
Spanking in bdsm parties: No 4
Spanking pleasure: Yes 4
Spandex clothing: No 2
Speech restrictions (when, what): No 3
Speculums (Anal): No 1
Speculums (vaginal): No 1
Spreader bars: Yes 4
Standing in corner: Yes 2
Stocks (adjustable): No 3
Stocks (fixed): No 3
Straight jackets: No 3
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): N/A
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): N/A
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): No 1
Strapping (full body beating): No 2
Suspension (upright); No 4
Suspension (inverted): No 4
Suspension (horizontal): No 4
Supplying new partners for Dom: No 1
Swallowing semen: Yes 4
Swallowing urine: No No
Swapping (with one other couple): No 1
Swinging (multiple couples): No 1
Tattooing: Yes 4
Teasing: Yes 4
Tickling: Yes 3
Triple penetration: No 1
Triple penetration by 3 males: No 1
Uniforms: No 20
Including others: No 3 (prefer female)
Vaginal dildo: Yes 4
Verbal humiliation: No 3
Vibrator on genitals: Yes 4
Voyeurism (watching others): No 4
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): No 2
Video (watching others): Yes 4
Video (recordings of you): No 2
Water torture: No 3
Wearing symbolic jewelry: No 4
Whipping: No 4
Wooden paddles: No 2
Wrestling: No 2

[sub-butterfly]

i am quite new to this and so the ones marked ? mean i do not know what they are. very good list. i am happily owned by my r/l Master Coldblue, not registered here.

butterfly
xxxxxxxx

[Sir_Russell]

sub-butterfly

You will do your Master proud. your open to most things and I can see your hard limits and them are certainly consistant.

Learn and grow

[annie]

The one for sub/slaves

Submissive BDSM Play Partner Check List

This questionnaire should be filled out by a sub and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them. This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common ground for play.

For each item, you need to provide two answers:
First write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
Next, indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.

NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).

0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit").

1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it were asked of you by your Dominant.

2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.

3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.

4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.

5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.

Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with you current sex partner(s), but not with casual play-partners.

Note any additional information, which might be important for your Dom to know.

There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.

Experience, Willingness Question or Comments
yes/no NO or 0-5 written in by sub


Abrasion: yes 4
Age play: yes 0
Anal sex: yes 5
Anal plugs (small): yes 5
Anal plugs (large): yes 4
Anal plug (public, under clothes): yes 5
Animal roles: yes 0
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): no 5
Asphyxiation: yes 2
Auctioned for charity: no 1
Bathroom use control: yes 3
Bestiality: no 2
Beating (soft): yes 5
Beating (hard): yes 4
Blindfolds: yes 3
Being serviced (sexual): yes 1
Being bitten: yes 3
Breast/chest bondage: yes 5
Breath control: yes 4
Branding: no 3
Boot worship: no 0
Bondage (light): yes 5
Bondage (heavy): yes 5
Bondage (multi-day): no 4
Bondage (public, under clothing): yes 4
Bondage and Sex: yes 5
Breast whipping: yes 3
Brown showers (scat): no 0 (possible change to NO after trying it)
Cages (locked inside of): no 4
Caning: no 4
Catheterization: no 0
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): no 4
Chastity belts: no 5
Chauffeuring: no 0
Choking: yes 4
Clothespins breast/nipples: yes 5
Clothespins labia lips/clit: yes 5
Clothespins body: yes 5
Cock worship: yes 4
Collars (worn in private): yes 5
Collars (worn in public): no 2
Competitions (with other Subs): no 0
Corsets (wearing): yes 3
Cuffs: yes 4
Cuffs (metal): yes 4
Cutting: no 3
Dilation: no 0
Double penetration: yes 5
Electricity: no 3
Enemas: yes 3
Enforced chastity: yes 3
Examinations (physical): yes 0
Exercise (forced/required): yes 1
Exhibitionism (friends): no 0
Exhibitionism (strangers): no NO
Eye contact restrictions: yes 4
Face slapping: yes 4
Fantasy abandonment: no 0
Fantasy rape: no NO
Fantasy forced deep throat: yes 3
Fantasy forced cunt licking: yes 0
Fantasy forced rape anal: yes NO
Fantasy gang-rape: no NO
Fisting (anal): no 3
Fisting (vaginal): no 3
Flogging: yes 5
Following hand signals: yes 3
Following orders: yes 5
Foot worship: yes 0
Forced dressing: yes 4
Forced homosexuality: no 1
Forced masturbation: yes 4
Forced nudity (private): yes 5
Forced nudity (around others): yes 1
Forced servitude: no 1
Full head hoods: no 5
Gags (cloth): yes 5
Gags (penis shaped): no 5
Gags (rubber): yes 5
Gags (tape): yes 5
Gates of Hell: n/a
Genital sex: yes 2
Given away to another Dom (temp): no 0
Given away to another Domme (temp): no 0
Given away to another Dom (perm): no 0
Given away to another Domme (perm): no 0
Golden showers: no 0 (possible change to NO after trying it.)
Greetings rituals: yes 4
Hairbrush spankings: yes 4
Hair pulling: yes 5
Hand jobs (giving): yes 4
Hand jobs (receiving): yes 4
Harems (serving w/other subs): yes 2 (depends on the subs!)
Harnessing (leather): no 4
Harnessing (rope): yes 4
Having food chosen for you: yes 4
Having clothing chosen for you: yes 4
Head (giving cunnilingus): yes 3
Head (giving fellatio): yes 4
Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): yes 2
Head (receiving fellatio male only): n/a
High heel worship: no 0
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): no 0
Hot oils (on genitals): yes 3
Hot waxing: yes 5
Housework (doing): yes 3
Human puppy dog: yes 0
Humiliation (private): yes 4
Humiliation (public): yes 1
Hypnotism: yes 0
Ice cubes: yes 4
Infantilism: no 0
Initiation rites: no 1
Injections: no 0
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: yes 4
Interrogations: no 0
Kidnapping: no 0
Kneeling: yes 3
Leather clothing: no 1
restraints chains: no 4
restraints leather: no 4
restraints rope: yes 5
Lectures for misbehavior: yes 4
Licking (non-sexual): no 0
Manacles & Irons: no 4
Manicures (giving): no 1
Massage (giving): yes 4
Massage (receiving): yes 2
Medical scenes: no 0
Modeling for erotic photos: no NO
Modeling for erotic videos: no NO
Mouth bits: no 4
Mummification: no 4
Nipple clamps: yes 5
Nipple cloths pins: yes 5
Nipple weights: yes 5
Oral/anal play (rimming): yes 3
Over-the-knee spanking: yes 5
Orgasm denial: yes 4
Orgasm control: yes 4
Outdoor scenes: yes 2
Outdoor sex: yes 2
Phone sex (serving Dom): yes 2
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no 0
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): no 0
Piercing (permanent): no 0
Prison scenes: no 0
Pony slave: no 0
Public exposure: yes 0
Public tasks: yes 2
Pussy/cock whipping: yes 4
Pussy worship: yes 2
Riding crops: yes 3
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): no 5
Rituals: yes 4
Religious scenes: no 0
Restrictive rules on behavior: yes 4
Rubber/latex clothing: no 2
Rope body harness: yes 4
Saran wrapping: no 3
Scratching – getting: yes 2
Scratching – giving: no 0
Sensory deprivation: yes 3
Serving: yes 4
Serving as art: no 0
Serving as ashtray: no 0
Serving as furniture: no 0
Serving as a maid: no 0
Serving as toilet: no 0 (possible NO after trying)
Serving as waitress/waiter: no 0
Serving orally (sexual): yes 3
Serving other Doms (supervised): no 1
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no 0
Sexual deprivation (short term): yes 2
Sexual deprivation (long term): yes 2
Shaving (body hair): yes 2
Shaving (head hair): no NO
Shaving (pubic hair): yes 3
Sleep deprivation: no 0
Sleep-sacks: no 3
Slutty clothing (private): yes 3
Slutty clothing (public): yes 1
Spanking in private: yes 5
Spanking in public: no 1
Spanking in bdsm parties: no 3
Spanking pleasure: yes 3
Spandex clothing: no 1
Speech restrictions (when, what): yes 4
Speculums (Anal): no 0
Speculums (vaginal): no 0
Spreader bars: yes 4
Standing in corner: yes 1
Stocks (adjustable): no 4
Stocks (fixed): no 4
Straight jackets: no 2
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): no 0
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): no 4
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): no 2
Strapping (full body beating): no 4
Suspension (upright); no 4
Suspension (inverted): no 4
Suspension (horizontal): no 4
Supplying new partners for Dom: yes 0
Swallowing semen: yes 3
Swallowing urine: no 0 (possible to NO after trying)
Swapping (with one other couple): no NO
Swinging (multiple couples): no NO
Tattooing: no 0
Teasing: yes 4
Tickling: yes NO and HELL NO!
Triple penetration: yes 4
Triple penetration by 3 males: no 4
Uniforms: no 0
Including others: yes 2
Vaginal dildo: yes 4
Verbal humiliation: yes 4
Vibrator on genitals: yes 4
Voyeurism (watching others): yes 3
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): no 2
Video (watching others): no 0
Video (recordings of you): yes 0
Water torture: yes 1
Wearing symbolic jewelry: no 1
Whipping: no 4
Wooden paddles: yes 4
Wrestling: yes 4

*NOTE: some of the items I think it depends on the "definition" used and that would still need to be discussed with the dominate. The list if extensive but I still perceived a few gray spots.*

[Sir_Russell]

annie,
You have one lucky Dom, I must say that I am a little jealous. You understood the list and answered about as well as any that has taken it.

[annie]

annie,
You have one lucky Dom, I must say that I am a little jealous. You understood the list and answered about as well as any that has taken it.

*blushes* thank you Sir Russell. Coming from you that is a true compliment.

*debates kidnapping annie and turning Domme*....

*dies laughing knowing how well THAT would work out!*