hey all, ive known for some time that i am submissive....but never known how to go about doing anything about it or where to go, anyon have any advice?
hey all, ive known for some time that i am submissive....but never known how to go about doing anything about it or where to go, anyon have any advice?
You could visit the clubs for lesbians. Maybe there you find the right Mistress.
hi im meggary i know a lot about this lifestyle but have never had any real life experience with it. i'm here to learn and make friends i guess, maybe even more. just a young submissive.
Welcome meggary!

How did i miss this one? I suppose its never too late to introduce myself, in case someone hasn't noticed me yet....Call me Kitty
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"Those who dream by day are cognizant of many things that escape those who dream only at night."
~Edgar Allan Poe~
Greetings everyone! I am femme.100 and I am a sub. I have been celibate for the past year longing for the right master/mistress. I am new to this site and also to this life.
So happy to get to know You, Jinxs----hugs
dave
hi I'm brandnew, a female sub with virtually no experience. However I have very strong yearning to learn as much as I can about the lifestyle, talk to others in a M/f Dom/sub relationship, and eventually find a Dom to serve. This is my purpose in life.
welcome to the library BrandNew
Hi everyone, my name is reinesherz and I'm a 22 year old submissive female, currently married to my Dom. I am new to this forum and to this lifestyle and I am here in hopes of learning more, enjoying the stories, and maybe making some new friends.
hello, Erom here, not so much a sub, probably better defined as a switch.
have tried doing a little self bondage, and found I liked it, wife isn't into it, so I have to play by myself, so looking for others also into self bondage, for information on their, gear and experiences and problems, I wouldn't want to experience
hello, Erom here, not so much a sub, probably better defined as a switch.
have tried doing a little self bondage, and found I liked it, wife isn't into it, so I have to play by myself, so looking for others also into self bondage, for information on their, gear and experiences and problems, I wouldn't want to experience
Keep it off your neck!!
Don't use tape over your mouth and then tie off your hands. (nasal congestion can kill if that's all you've got as an airway.)
The final tie-off to a solid object, should be a slipknot that you can untie by pulling on it with your teeth.
But most importantly... it's more fun with a partner. Go to a munch and find one. It need not be sexual.
The Wizard of Ahhhhhhhs
Chief Magistrate - Emerald City
thanks, I picked up a decent collar, so nothing will be tied around my neck, will order a good ball gag when I feel I'm ready to go that far. and will do some research about Munch... and finding a safety net, someone I can trust.

Welcome, to the site and I hope that you enjoy yout time here.
Master Chris
thanks, I picked up a decent collar, so nothing will be tied around my neck, will order a good ball gag when I feel I'm ready to go that far. and will do some research about Munch... and finding a safety net, someone I can trust.
Hi, I'm lilpenguin, a nickname I picked up somewhere, closely related to my love of cute penguins
I am a submissive and always have been, however never properly trained, most of what I know is instinct, and have been in two slightly dominant relationships, the first ending when he started to drink too much and got violent, the second being my marriage which is now over, and he became abusive. I have a feeling that my choice in partners has gotten me into trouble due to not really knowing enough about the Dom side to see what is truly Dom, and thus appropriate, safe and fullfilling for a sub, and what is a Dom who is more the monster and powerseeking abuser.
I am a natural as I said, most of what I know is instinct and confuses people because it seems like I know a lot... but I am painfully and horribly innocent in knowing the ins and outs... and am hoping to learn some things here, explore my limits and learn how to offer myself wisely.
My name is onbendedknees, a 44 yr old reheaded submissive in the eastern Ontario region of Canada. A pleasure to meet everyone.
ALM1989, very new to the lifestyle, I discovered I was a submissive about 6 months ago. No experience, BDSM or vanilla. I'm hoping to get to know others in my area and hopefully find a Dom around my age. Possibly be trained somewhat online first, though most of the guys who have offered online were a lot older than me.
Im lanie im rlly new to this but and never acted omn my curiosity untill now i just looking for someone to help me explore my submissive side
Good day all.
I have not introduced myself as of yet because I was still question within myself if I felt this was right for me. After a while of deep thinking I have come to the conclusion that this is. I'm a 21 year old female who although shy, still likes to learn things.
I hope all who read this have a pleasant day.
I'm a 19 year old gender-neutral sub who prefers male pronouns and enjoys med play![]()

I am completely green to this lifestyle, though have known a piece has been missing from my life. I am looking forward to exploring this side of myself, and hope to be all that He wants and needs.
Hi everyone, my name on the site is Aidorei which i only go by on this site now, I am a submissive/slave. I was a slave to my last master for nearly 4 yrs. I am now in a new
relationship with a man who is learning to become a dominant so right now i consider myself a submissive till he become knowledgeable enough to be my master. I'm still
learning really cause i had an online relationship with my last master i'm not used to having my Dom/Master living with me and my current Dom doesn't do some of the things my Master used to even through online. I have suggested to my Dom to possibly find a mentor to mentor him in being a dom/master but he wants to learn by himself for now. i am currently looking for someone that can help teach me how to be a better submissive/slave for my new Dom.
Hello, I'm bound. I'm new to this life, but have known for years that I was a submissive but haven't had the opportunity to explore this side of myself.
I know that I am looking for a D/s relationship that has the potential to become an r/l D/s relationship.
Welcome, bound for you![]()
hi all i'm hellman some of you have chatted to me same have not yet
i'm new to bdsm and reading all i can and i have just started to chat to my first online dom sir is nice and cares what i think we are going slow as he know new and maybe to egor to please his slow me down some times but is all good and i'm so happy thank you for ready this
Hellos you can call me zanya or sub-z. I am new here and LOVE it. I met my Husband 2 years ago tomorrow on a blind date and married him 2 months later. We recently decided to take our relationship to the next level and I'm so excited about it. I've been in a D/s relationship before but it just wasn't right. I've been into BDSM for a very long time and always knew I was a sub. I am very shy but I am a goofball. My husband is also a goofball so we fit perfectly together. My husband is such a caring and compassionate person and I can't wait to see the Dom side of Him.
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sub-z
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Hi! I'm pink.lioness, happy to go by pink for short.![]()
I have known most of my life that I was submissive, and desired bondage (as my darkest dreams taught me), it was only in the last couple years I was able to put a name to what I desired so much. I am happily married, and love my husband very much. But we have come to understand that there is something he can not provide. Thought he is all for a little light bondage in the bedroom, he isn't really a Dom, nor does he desire to become one. So I'm reading, researching, meeting and trying to fill that missing piece.
I'm new here, and new to the lifestyle, but I crave knowledge and will be doing a lot more reading and asking my share of questions. Not sure I'll have answers for anyone else yet, but I'm happy to help if I can.
Hi all. I'm RSAslaveboy. Im a 21 year old male submissive to a master. I'm for south Africa and quite new to the lifestyle. Any advice and such would be appreciated
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