humiliation

[Tojo]

hmm...well I've never really considered this part. I guess cause it's almost impossible to humiliate me lol.

(I do that enough by myself!!)

Shows how little you know missy.

Tojo

[Mistress Florence]

Cor is an English exclaimation like 'gosh' or 'golly'.. like 'cor blimey, that was a really good session Mistress' for an example

[Qmoq]

Thanks Florence! Yes, that was the context in which I used the word. Gadzooks, I do like using words like that.

Q xx

[Warbaby1943]

My most humiliating and embarrassing experience was when I came while being spanked bent over the knee of a beautiful Mistress with my cock between her legs. She ordered me to lay this way. It just absolutely took me by surprise. It happened like as involuntary reflex, sort of like having a wet dream, I had no control. Maybe she knew this would happen but I had no idea it would. I had a lot of new experiences that day but cumming like that was very humiliating.

[playme]

Not even going to get into what all the ex use to require me to do so excluding all that ----

after those days I'd say the one instance that stands out as more humilitating was one guy I served for a time had a thing about making me show myself to any one he wanted me to. His place was on one of the back holes of a private country club golf course. He'd put these hook thingies into the woodwork around back deck sliding window and oe of his kicks was to make me take off all my clothes and be tied spread edge to edge while he'd leave and run off to the store or what. When he'd get back he'd sit and have a drink or eat a snack and just sit and make me wait and squirm for a while before he'd eventually come over behind me where he couldn't be seen and take his sweet time having fun playing with my butt.
The house was a ways away from the green so I doubt the older players had good enough vision to truely know what they were seeing but a once in awhile the ball would overshoot the hole and more than one fellow who came after the ball get quite an eyeful and then some.

[Scorpio'sWill2Power]

Not even going to get into what all the ex use to require me to do so excluding all that ----

after those days I'd say the one instance that stands out as more humilitating was one guy I served for a time had a thing about making me show myself to any one he wanted me to. His place was on one of the back holes of a private country club golf course. He'd put these hook thingies into the woodwork around back deck sliding window and oe of his kicks was to make me take off all my clothes and be tied spread edge to edge while he'd leave and run off to the store or what. When he'd get back he'd sit and have a drink or eat a snack and just sit and make me wait and squirm for a while before he'd eventually come over behind me where he couldn't be seen and take his sweet time having fun playing with my butt.
The house was a ways away from the green so I doubt the older players had good enough vision to truely know what they were seeing but a once in awhile the ball would overshoot the hole and more than one fellow who came after the ball get quite an eyeful and then some.

Now in my view something like this is not what I'd think would be
the focus or lynch pin that secures the bond between
D/s-Master/slave.

This sounds more like a one way situation to boost
the master's ego and possibly reaffirm his own image
in his mind and not really doing much justice in the true sense
of a D/s relationship.

I'm not saying you're anywhere at fault in this Playme, I just happen
to think your master was off the mark in what his overall aim was.

It doesn't sound like he was giving you much to feel good about
yourself in serving him and that has to be a part of things as well.

I believe there has to be a sense that although someone assumes
the sub role they also need to gain something in return and not be
there solely to validate a master's role in his mind or those who
might view his actions.

I stress this again that I'm not faulting Playme in this in anyway,
just an opinion that I think she didn't get what she sounded to
be worthy of receiving in a D/s-slave realtionship.

I'll even go so far as to say that this type of activity has its
merits and can be enjoyed by both provided both are receiving
some benefit from it and it's not done with solely the master
in mind.

[playme]

Sir, I am humbled by the kindness shown in your thoughts.
I'm no longer in service to the man, partially due to the reasons you pointed at, partially due to him finding a new "toy" to get his kicks from. But surly I digress... sorry
I've moved well beyond serving myself up to those who delights have only risen to a height that is easily derived by use of such hmmmm "childish" games.
It was a far greater decesive moment which formed the bond that will forever hold me and keep me deeply committed and endeared to remain with the One I am in service to today.
As maybe you've picked up if you've read any couple of my previous posts -- I feel I am mose keenly aware than some of what diferences there are between good and evil, right and wrong, being under respectable control and subjected to forceful inflictions of abuse.
The irony is that it took going through the bad experiences to gain the depth of understanding how good the good really is.
It makes for a complete new mindset and a more comfortable willingness to give myself freely and willingly up to the One I know without doubt I can trust not to do me wrong in prcess of doing His things.
It's not about games and power and being held reign AT ALL. .
Point blank, bottom line it's about respect and trust and that is all.
The rest is left to what ever I am required to give of mysef to see His pure pleasures be taken as ever as He may so desires to have me take them.

I thank you again Sir. I hope those under your control understand the significance of having found themelve held by in hands with such good grace and heartfelt compassion as yours.

[Scorpio'sWill2Power]

Sir, I am humbled by the kindness shown in your thoughts.
I'm no longer in service to the man, partially due to the reasons you pointed at, partially due to him finding a new "toy" to get his kicks from.

I thank you again Sir. I hope those under your control understand the significance of having found themelve held by in hands with such good grace and heartfelt compassion as yours.

Thank you as well Playme for sharing a part of what's inside your
heart through your posts here.

For being brave enough to see through clear eyes and know even
in D/s that caring and compassion go hand in hand with
honor and obedience.

[playme]

oops accident double posted

[gagged_Louise]

My most humiliating and embarrassing experience was when I came while being spanked bent over the knee of a beautiful Mistress with my cock between her legs. She ordered me to lay this way. It just absolutely took me by surprise. It happened like as involuntary reflex, sort of like having a wet dream, I had no control.

Warbaby 1943: Yes, I see how messy and humiliating that could be - just like that in this schoolboy position.
Being into crossdressing myself and letting that help my submissive side, in a wide sense, one of the more humiliating things I could think of (and not humiliating in a sweet way, nothing I'd want to see happen) would be if I were playing around, dressed en femme with panties, skirt, filled-in bra, lipstick etc with two or three others - guys or ladies. And then, as I'm getting stiff and erect - I try to avoid that happening all of a sudden - one of them would sort of break the rules and say in a cold, nasty tone "Yeah, look at that slaveboy, how you turned him on" and seizing my crotch. It's part of the game then that you want to be seen as a woman, you want no reference to anything else, you want to be fucked and caressed, made to surrender and treated as a woman, vene if it's harsh. "Dirty little whore" would be no problem , but never "slave boy" in that state.

[orchid]

i used to find it really humiliating when my Master would have me fellate him infront of His friends but now i quite enjoy it!

[Silke]

...yet again my question - did you enjoy the humiliation or did you feel violated as you said? The scenes you describe are really hot...I'm just wondering whether you got anything out of them. Somehow it doesn't sound like that to me from what you say, but I might be waaay off on that. I'd love to know more - thanks for sharing yet again.

[Misato36]

...yet again my question - did you enjoy the humiliation or did you feel violated as you said? The scenes you describe are really hot...I'm just wondering whether you got anything out of them. Somehow it doesn't sound like that to me from what you say, but I might be waaay off on that. I'd love to know more - thanks for sharing yet again.

At first I was extremely angry with him. I argued with him about it but he later punished me for my behavior. I told him that I would have felt better if he had warned me or consulted it with me. He merely laughed at me and then fucked me. I learned to get over it since I was a sub and he was master. I learned that he complete control over me and didn't question him again.

[Silke]

Phew, I guess my idea of being a sub is just at the other end of the spectrum...I'd have kicked his balls if he had treated me like that. I'm not even talking about the scene but how he treated you afterwards. Aftercare probably wasn't in his vocabulary, neither was respect, huh? How long did you stay with him?

[heycarrieanne]

Humiliation can be a terrific turn-on while also being the worst thing ever!!! The first time Master Joseph (my ex-Master) shared me I was horrified and yet so wet his friends' cocks had problems staying in my cunt. I also lost count of the orgasms I was allowed to have. (grin) Being called bad names is also a turn on...but he only did it during sex or punishment sessions because, as we all know, if you are called a cunt or slut or whore ALL the time it can be bad on your self-esteem.