Hmm, yes, the 'How dare you' response... Judgementalism at its finest. I could understand it if you had gone to people in his local life and outed him, but that is not the case here. As I said above, the only people that get twisted about safety issues are those with something to hide.

I think you comported yourself well in this situation. Keep that solid head firmly on your shoulders and you are going to be just fine.