I second what Malich said about being wary of anyone who pushes for more than you are comfortable offering, especially when you first meet. I, Myself, like to approach subs as potential friends first and potential play partners second, so I would be wanting to know more about you then just your kinks and limits, if the person you've just met shows no interest in those things you need to consider for what it is you, yourself, are looking and base any decisions regarding this, or any, dom accordingly.