i like what DevilsMask said: "deconstruction of a person."

in it's truest sense, objectification is harsh. being used as an object with no consideration for my feelings is hot for a day or even a weekend, but in the end, that level of putting "me" away can't be maintained. we don't live in such an insular world.

in the world i live in where i still have to go to work, be a daughter/sister/friend, where i volunteer, make decisions - where i still have to interact in my vanilla world, objectification becomes a way to combine the "deconsruction" of my past, preconceived notions of how things should be and how he wants me to be.

at times, being an object is a way to define - at it's basest - who i am to Him. a few of you said it above - a fucktoy, His slut, his footstool. there are times i need to come home, put away the stress of the day and just be a hole. perhaps a hole who cooks dinner, too.