Treat online as you would your real life interactions. We talk about sex, bdsm, kink and we use the shield of a computer to say things we might not say to someone face to face. Which is really pretty fun! But be careful...

Online is pretty powerful and as dave said, addictive. I remember meeting someone online here years ago and we were chatting in IM when his wife jumped in and asked who the heck I was!? I didn't know he was married but within a week or so, was talking to him about really really intimate things. I will say I did meet my first Dominant here from the bdsmlibrary and it was a wonderful experience. I was really lucky. We took our time getting to know each other and I felt really ready when we finally met.

Be careful. Be smart.