Curious and frustrated

[thir]

I fundamentally disagree with those that insist that shy people should discuss their business in public. I may, of course, be speaking rubbish according to them when I say that. Our lifestyle is consensual and should not be dictated by the extraverts.

VV

No one is insisting on anything. A question has been put, and people are just trying to answer to the best of their ability. Of course the OP will make her own decisions.