Quote Originally Posted by laughindead View Post
My wife and I have decided after two years of marriage to begin a Dom/sub relationship. However neither of us have much experience. We have discussed our desires but I am having problems with the Dom roll. I know I need to be more forceful but I do not want to become overbearing. I am also having difficulties balancing my humorous, sarcastic nature with my newly appointed dominant roll. Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

-L.D.
i have been in a new 24/7 role for the past several months but in a D/s role for many rules with a Dom that is extremely humorous. i love the way He makes me laugh but can be serious when it time to be serious. it wasn't always that way, though. i thought He was too humorous too often and i couldn't discuss serious subjects with Him. But we all grow up, right?

Master has made me laugh harder and more often in these last several months in our 24/7 roles than He has in the past couple of years. He is happier and jokes when appropriate and to the point that i am rolling on the floor but serious when He needs to be as well. He has found His balance and i am proud and happy to have helped Him find it through our new found relationship.

So, there is a place for your humor and sarcastic nature in this. There is nothing to worry about.

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