I thought that was interesting stating about the humor, When I have been in a one on one relationship with a Dom it seems I find the ones with humor and sarcasm which mixes very well with me for Im the same way , where if I was with someone not so humorist id for sure be disciplined lots (yikes) One thing I do but at the right time , is whisper in my doms ear all the Domme things Im gona do to him , truly Im all sub and would never dream of it but it does keep him laughing and (pffft) at me for being so cheeky. as stated above if i wasnt so trusting of him I wouldnt do it , so is a good thing in my book for i can truly let go and be myself , we both learn along the way .