not only will there be many with your same interests, but i really think that this is a good opportunity to remind everyone that it is important for yourself and your partner to truly know each other. by taking the time to get to truly know each other first, it gives your partner the chance to get to know and understand your reactions, limits, needs, and wants to a much better degree...which will go a long way toward helping them to know when they may be approaching any boundaries during a scene and keeping things safe, sane, and consentual.

best wishes.