If your pet likes to be controlled, you'll be wanting to pay attention to details. Especially from a distance, those details will allow you to exert control that should satisfy that craving and be tailored to his or her needs. Be nosy. Ask questions and remember the answers. It's purely a psychological game in an online context, so the most important thing is to demonstrate that you can get inside your pet's head. That was my experience, anyway. Nicipac is spot on in his advice, as well.