[QUOTE=M@ster]mind play, absolutely...

I just love the thought you can make a sub do/think whatever You like, instead what she expects....QUOTE]

Although I agree with you, I wonder if that's really a fetish? If so, it is tops on my list. I've only met one Dominant capable of controlling my mind in such a way and it was the most erotic, arousing experience of my life. I suppose because I am both a powerful and strong-willed woman, to have a Dominant outwit me, keeps me in perpetual heat. To me sex is in the mind and not between the legs.