Sir,
I am a female SwiTcH in my real life and I can tell you it's not that difficult or confusing at all. It helps that we both have stressful jobs and need to be very assertive at work, when we get home, He is usually Dom and me fiery, we clash, that leads to heated and aggressive passion and lust. Evolutionary theorists observe this behaviour in the animal kingdom - one of us will bear our necks to the the other, even though the fight to get to that state is as equally arousing as the willingness to submit or the victory of Domination itself.
Asia
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