Is Dragon is just an old SEXIST!

[violett]

As someone who has known you a very long time (is your voice still as sexy??) You are who you are.

There is nothing wrong with you not being comfortable giving tasks to same sex just as it is not wrong for those who are comfortable with it. You have to do what feels right for you.

My experience is that there is no absolute right or wrong in this lifestyle (as long as it is mutually consensual) no matter what others may try to say. Everyone is individual and has to be comfortable with the way THEY do things.

Over the past few years I have got to know many in the lifestyle, heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, transgender, transexual, transvestite and enjoy the company of all of them. They are who they are - individuals, non judgemental (mostly), and bloody good fun.

So I guess what I'm trying to say RD is - be your wonderful self as usual and don't worry about it.

[Jennifer Williams]

Awww, everybody has things that turn them on and then things that don't turn them on. You can't help what those things are; though it's possible for tastes to change you can't force it on yourself. You're just plain heterosexual and that's that. I'm the same way; doing anything sexual with a female doesn't do anything for me, in fact it turns me off. So I just don't do those activities. It's just a hard limit for you, that's all; and you shouldn't try to force yourself to be something you're not.

Haha, being exclusively heterosexual in this community is uncommon, but with the level of acceptance there is, I think we can handle a straight guy. That certainly doesn't make you sexist *laughs*. Sexism is when you disrespect a person based on their gender, or think of them as lower or less important than the other gender. You most certainly are not doing that. So relax! Just be who you are, as long as you're respectful towards everyone there's no harm in it.