No Limits

[openyoureyes]

So, rather than saying you are a no limits slave, it is better to say that you are a long term slave in a trusting relationship built up over time.

I agree with fetishdj on this, too. Especially because you say:

If playing outside of my relationship, I definitely have limits, though, because there are things I will do for him that I won't do for anyone else.

There are definitely things I do within my current relationship that I would never imagine myself doing for another person. A lot of that has to do with trusting the person you're with, thus you are able to push your limits further, or in your case, not feel the need to have limits because you wholly trust the person you're with.

[AnticipatingPain]

Safe words & limits can evolve and their definitions often change as a M/s or D/s relationships develop with trust.

All our relationships are utterly unique regardless of our 'labels' and although the fundenmental basics of safe words & limits are the same they can mean different things to us.

Personally I don't set my limits, he does. The same ethos with regards to a safe word.

As the membership of the library is forever changing and renewing; I think as long as we communicate the importance of limts & safe words to new members we are being responsible. Like wise if anybody is curious about my circumstances I'm always happy to explain.

[cadence]

I completely understand Red's point of view, I tend to feel the same way on the subject, but I do understand that new members may not entirely understand having limits vs. having no limits.

I don't like to say I have no limits, because I do, but it's really how one views the context of what "no limits" means.

Having no limits is just plain silly, since there are so many different fetishes, ideas and kinks to choose from, there couldn't possibly be a person who would enjoy them all.
Then there's the reality of limits as well. Who really would consent to amputation, or death by some form of kinky play.

It also raises the issue of consensual nonconsent, which is what I have agreed to enter into. It's hard to wrap your head around it sometimes. I may not enjoy all of his kinks, but I've been told that it's not really my choice in the matter.

I like to say that that I have few hard limits, or things that are definately off limits. Most of those off limit things are kinks he doesn't enjoy either.

Everything else is either going to be tried or tried and thoroughly enjoyed.