Spilling into vanilla life- at work!

[thepast]

I agree with Oz. Though you both may think you're in a happy scene, it's work, it isn't play. And depending where you live, you are flirting with some massive employment issues...

I heard this great phrase once: "Work booty is bad booty." Yes, yes it is.

Steer clear at work. It never ends well. Co-workers, bosses, clients find out & then, as Oz alludes to, you are up a creek w/o a paddle. Even worse, if you are found straight out by HR, you are in the rapids w/o a paddle.

There are no HR policies to allow for scene-ing at work. There are no HR policies to allow for ANYTHING related to Lifestyle at work. People have worked DECADES to equalize the work environment for everyone, and trust me, bosses & HR are VERY clued into things that "aren't right." While you might be having fun now, you won't be in a few months when you are asked to pack your desk up.

Have the fun outside of work, but leave the workplace alone.

Of course, I would say the same thing about extending your D/s relationship from home to the workplace: a no-no. There are boundaries to everything in life, and the work/office boundary? That's a fairly solid line.

Just my 2 cents.

[Lisais mine]

you know, it happens to me all the time. while i am giving a massage, a girl will say " i like pain" or something to that effect. the best response is to ignore it. pretend you dont get the clues, and keep it in your pants.