Personally I would laugh in the face of the prospective dominant that presented me with such a request. Imho if one is so insecure that one needs such a contrivance one wont ever get me into one's collar to begin with anyway, let alone hold me there.

But thats just me.

If a contract one must have, then by all means feel free to have one.

Just make sure you read all the fine print, and that every thing in the contract is safe, sane, and mutually consensual prior, cuase odds are the prospective dominant that wants you to sign one, is also going to try and use it against you 9 times out of 10 sometime in the future bywaving it in your face when you want to refuse to do somthing.

So word to the wise....make sure there is a cluase that lets you negotieate and or say NO at anytime, contract or no contract.

I rumaged around for a little bit on the back shelves and found some links about what others have said or presented examples of about them before that one may or may not find helpful.

Good Luck.


http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...lave+contracts

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...lave+contracts

http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...lave+contracts