Well i guess im supposed to have a post here again..
Im 33 and have played with varying degrees of bondage and SM since i was 17 or so. Back when i discovered my interest i went to clubs but realised i had huge issues with whats considered alpha males. I dont take verbal lessons well either.

Instead i studied, i allways knew i had much to learn and that it would take a lot of effort getting anywhere. That combined wit lots and lots of psychological studies irl and in roleplay chats. Eventually turned into a school of thought and play thats right for me.

Seems it doesnt quite match how most dom's do but each to his own. I have found people here that i can ask and get responses from that i can respect and understand and i will be asking more than i used to.

The day i know it all, ill put away my riding crop and take up a new kink. Im thinking ill make a decent adult baby should that happen.