No i have only met him twice up to yet and i think my continuous movement made him aware i was uncomfortable though maybe not how uncomfortable i really was. and although it was over night it was at most 5 hours.
Thank you for your concern and i am sure had there been a really issue with for example a fire whilst he was out i would have found away out of the restraint but i didn't really look for one at the time the position he left me in was much more bearably than whilst in bed and i did have some range of movement i was more distressed by lack of attention i think (that makes me sound terrible)
thank you again and i will try to be more open with him in future about my feelings both physiacl and mental.