Are some doms insecure?

[efwb2]

I think it's interesting that a conversation that i did not have, a talk with my pet and a post on a forum. I never thought is would have so much controversy.

I can see both sides of the coin and even though I have been round the scene for a long time, I have always wondered about the insecurities side of things. Cause some Dom’s will think I’m insecure just by posting this thread, but that’s not why i did it. I did it because it's an issue i seem to come across more and more.

The reasons behind a ban of speaking to other Dom’s that has come up are interesting to me, because it never crossed my mind to ban my pet from talking to anyone.
I can also see how some Dom’s would use it as a way of protecting there subs from harm of others, especially if they are new to the lifestyle.

Even though I have been doing this for 10 years, i still think there is a lot to learn from the older more experienced members of the library and sometime the new members have great ideas. With that said i think that a subs opinion at times is more important than a Dom’s because the sub it on the receiving end. But I do value both opinions to learn from and give me a fuller picture.

El x

[numenor]

When limits are developed and agreed upon, and rules are developed I would hope they would be for the good of the Sub.

Given that to pass judgement on someone, based on tertiary information is probably not the best approach. there just is not enough information to say that this is insecurity or wrong.