I made the mistake of attempting to task another dom's sub without permission, right here on this site. .... Well after a very good tongue lashing, by the sub no less, I apologized profusely by the way, I find that whatever people D/s's alike agree upon in their business, and should be respected.

My sub/wife and I are taking it very slow, I chat and research and she reads stories, but if she voiced a desire to talk to other Doms, I could only see that as her trying to find out how better to please me.

What I think another Dom does or doen't allow his sub to do, is nothing. That is their business. If the sub in this relationship is not being harmed, what's the big deal?