My Master has no problem with me talking with other doms or even flirting a little because he knows that I would never cross the line and that I can handle myself. He also knows that HE is the only one who can control me and that he's the only one I want to control me. Not only that but he has 100% trust in me and knows I tell him everything anyway.

I previously had a dom who didn't allow me to talk in private with others - not because he was insecure in our relationship although it was only online (unlike now) but because he wanted to protect me and I was new to the lifestyle at the time, and I must admit it was a great way to get rid of unwanted whisperers by saying loudly in room sorry my master doesn't allow me to pm. Now I've grown so much in confidence I don't need to hide behind my master and can stand up for myself - something he admires in me and what brought us together.