I suggest if you feel the need, go explore it and find out.

It doesn't necessarily mean you have to be a sadistic or harsh domme, I can see the desire to just care for someone... if that turns out to be how your desire to control manifests itself.

You don't have to "fit" a mold. But do be prepared that you may need to acquire certain skills to provide your boy the pleasures he seeks.

There are plenty of areas that are not gender specific, and I'm sure there must be a few articles and threads on how to deal with boy-parts.