*chuckles* ok.......here's a thought for all you parents. Yes, i agree that children do NOT want the details of their parents' sex lives........but as they get older, the opposite is also true!!!! My sons' father was killed when my boys were 4 and 6.........they are now 16 and 19. We had the *responsible sex* talk and continue to have it as i deem it necessary. i do NOT want to know any details about my sons' sex lives.....and would prefer it to think they just don't have any!!! But....my hopes and dreams were shattered on that delusion when i walked in early from work one night and found my oldest son using his girlfriend's thighs as ear muffs!! *shudders harshly and shakes that one off.......AGAIN*

My point being......children definately make things more difficult.......even if your relationship is strictly vanilla!! As icey said, often minor adjustments can be made that both of Y/you can agree upon that keeps the most personal aspects of your relationship in the shadows if not in the complete dark.....LOL!!! Anyone that has children learns to modify, adapt, and cover their tracks very very quickly in the event of an exposure *giggling*

The idea about *date night* is a wonderful one!!! So is leaving for the night to a hotel for "rougher, "oh my God i can actually scream!" kinda play *grins* Oh.......and before you know it, you'll have to make an appointment to get to see them because they are so busy and gone most of the time *chuckling* Hang in there!!! It does get better!