The little things can add up, too.
Whispering "mine" in her ear gets a good reaction from my kitten.
I touch her a lot, rubbing her head and playing with her hair, so every now and then I'll get a good grip and slowly pull her hair tight -- no one can see it, but it's a reminder to both of us.
She started sitting on the floor in the living room because the couch was hurting her back, but I've found that I really like that. She sits next to my legs or between them with her laptop on the coffee table. 'course the fact that this positions her nicely for me to rub her back and shoulders might be an ulterior motive.
