i have older kids.... 2 young men. They see their mom as being respectful. i guess it is easier in our house as we make a living working at Renaissance faires, so when i call Him M'Lord they know that is how we speak at faire. Also seeing me in a leather collar they tend to think it is just something we make. They are kids and from what i remember kids don't think of their parents as sexual things, they kinda just close it out and don't want to know the details!