I had an a timeframe in my life that was very emotionally draining, and I was unable to be Dominant, just due to the incredible emtional baggage that was going on at the time. As a result, my slave actually stepped up, took the reigns of making sure our relationship was stable, and we were communicating. Now that the emotional baggage is gone, she has stepped back and let me take the reigns once again. I am very gratefull to her understanding and devoted nature.

As for day to day, or week to week. I may go up and down in intesity, but I don't ever feel like not being Dom.