That you would admit such mistakes denotes that you are a better person and have learned from making them. I can't speak for everyone, of course, but I can speak for me and say that it took a great deal of courage to admit the mistake, and even more to make sure it would never happen again. This is one of those things that define us in this community from other people. The fact that we always want to be told if we are doing something wrong so we can fix it. Most people don't want to hear that they're wrong, it goes against our nature as human beings(I am always right! Not really.), but from the way I've seen things in the BDSM community, most Dom/mes and sub/slave's that are worth their salt will be the first to admit a mistake and attempt to make it better.

So I applaud you. I appreciate you sharing this story with us, and I understand how much it costs you to admit these mistakes so that others can learn from it and not make the same mistake.