Psychology Of Verbal Degradation

[denuseri]

Well I for one have experienced both the good and the bad ways for this type of domination to play out.

It took a long time for me to enjoy it again after the bad experience I had.

Fortunately I am lucky to find those that are understanding and so very good at it to make it exciting for me again.

[hopperboo]

Fortunately I am lucky to find those that are understanding and so very good at it to make it exciting for me again.

Eh...that is my only...fear I guess is the word...with this type of play.

When I think of humiliation right off the bat I think of someone who is meeting another person and says, "Well aren't you a disgusting piece of filth," as an intro line and then laughs it off.

*Sighs* The idea of having that in the bedroom, with someone who actually I KNOW cares for me is a turn on...but I wouldn't go for it with just anyone. Nor would I go for someone who was verbally...degrading, but who couldn't (or wouldn't) ever tell me he cared for me. (Because that isn't realy caring then, is it).